I made a similar post and got similar replies. Best to do as they say man cos i've had no luck on this site. if your problem like me is shyness then your just gonna have to bite the bullet n overcome it n BELIEVE me i know how hard that is. Luckily I had a very close female friend who pretty much trained me on how to approach women. . . still not much luck though but i'm gettin there. i know it. 3 months ago i couldnt even talk to women. now i can just stroll over n start chattin. unfortunately im not very good at makin my move yet lol. ah well. thems the breaks