well.....our first meet with a cpl, only our second meet....drove 3 hours to get to their house, she was drunkish, he was lashed as a bastard, and there was a single male there as well. we had a laugh for a while, then he started to get leery with me....flicked fag ash on my head while i was sitting on the sofa - then denied he'd done it despite the fact that her and Jax saw him do it...a little later we all retired upstairs, but he went back into the living room after 5 or 10 mins...she went down to see what the score was and they started having a huge domestic. the single guy ran away very quickly, and i said to Jax we had better go. The woman started on me, then he got right in my face - several times. being in someone elses house i was determined to be on my best behaviour, so i refrained from smacking him down, but have occasionally wish i had lol. The next day we found out that our story was by no means unusual with this cpl...shame we hadn't been told that b4. The whole thing very nearly put Jax off swinging for good, and she left her favourite toy there as well ffs! needless to say she's never got it back...
We figure that sooner or later ur gonna have a meet that goes seriously pear-shaped...we just got ours out of the way at the start lol...i hope!
andy
sex is violence - jane's addiction
andy
dancing in the moonlight - thin lizzy
andy
I saw John Martyn almost 20 years ago, at the appropriatley named Irish Centre in Birmingham,,,He came on stage with his guitar, a half pint of neat dark rum, and a huuuuuuuuge spliff. After every song (or before the next one, depending on how u look at it lol) he took a drink from the glass, a toke from the smoke, then launched into the next song.
A phenomenal player, racconteur, wit, and real party monster. another one bites the dust.
andy
Well as far as i know "wind ur neck in" has been around as a saying in england for donkeys years, meaning much the same....behave urself, calm down....as a variation on the eating things thru things theme, Lilly Savage has a good one - I could eat a nuns arse thru the convent railings - which i'm very fond of:evil2:....the saying that is, tho i'm sure if i tried,....lol
andy
Kisses Sweeter Than Wine - The Weavers
Jax
Red House - Jimi Hendrix
Jax
Sad Sad Sad.... Had the pleasure of seeing the man play in Birmingham Town Hall many years ago.... one man one guitar one amazing noise....
I'm going away to leave you, I'm going to leave you in disgrace
Nothing in my favour, got the wind in my face
I'm going home, hey hey hey, over the hill
Over the hill, hey hey hey, over the hill
Can't get enough of sweet cocaine, get enough of mary-jane
Going back to where I come from, going rolling back home again
Over the hill, hey hey hey, over the hill
Over the hill, hey hey hey, over the hill
Been worried about my babies, been worried about my wife
Just one place for a man to be when he's worried about his life
I'm going home, hey hey hey, over the hill
Over the hill, hey hey hey, over the hill
I'm going away to leave you, I'm going to leave you in disgrace
Got nothing in my favour, rain in my face
I'm going home, hey hey hey, over the hill
Over the hill, hey hey hey, over the hill
Bye Mr Martyn an thanks
Jax
ah that wud be Jax, my personal Porno-Dwarf....omg, she's gonna kill me for that:boxing:...sorry babe:giveup:
andy
Boo hun, if what i put has made u feel better I'm really pleased to have been of service.
I think that a lot of the single males (no all mind u, but a significant proportion, and they are the biggest culprits) don't see the folks on cam as people at all, but as abstacts, in much the same way they do porn....an opportunity to transplant urself into the place of the man (or woman, depending on their inclination) and fantasize that u r taking part.
As has been said many times here, in chat and on the forums, this ain't a porno site, yet it will always attract people who will treat it as just that, and if you don't measure up to their fantasies they get disappointed, and sometimes abusive.
Like you, we go on cam to enhance our own experience simply by the act of letting folks watch.......yes, sometimes we do things differently whe we r on cam, but it's the cam itself that inspires this, not a desire to put on a show for people. We like the fact that people watch, and that they get off on us getting off on each other, otherwise we wouldn't be doing it.
Just keep doing what you do, don't let the haters get to ya (god that sounds hip and trendy lol), and if they can't take a joke....fuck 'em.
Andy
Wow Boo.....hugely impressed by ur honesty and elloquence, and more than a little moved i have to say.:inlove:
I know that ur post isn't aimed at me (being a bloke like), but I'd like to add to it if u don't mind...
When we joined, almost a year ago now (doesn't time fly when ur havin fun eh?), Jax took to the cam immediately. She seems to really enjoy showing herself off, but having the element of safety and control that the cam gives u. She's quite a shy girl really, tho u woldn't know it most of the time, and i was, and still am, really impressed. But the first time we went on cam together she got some really hateful remarks....only from one or two men, but it upset her deeply, despite the huge amount of support and positive comments she was getting from the rest of the folks in the chat room. Like u with Bull, I am very protective of her, and had the major culprit been present i would quite cheerfully have disembowled him with my bare hands. To see someone u love reduced to a blubbering wreck by one sentence from a complete stranger and be powerless to do anything is really not good for the soul, well not mine anyway. Her self-image has never been great (can someone please teach this woman to love her body....i been trying for 10 years but i'm getting nowhere), and it took a lot of courage for her to go on cam in the first place, but even if that hadn't been the case I would still have been raging.
Anyway, i got a skin like a rhino when it comes to me, but ur walkin on very thin ice when u say somethin aout her, and it's very hard sometimes to detach urself from what's said on the screen....i don't think she worries about what folks say about me (not that they do usually - not where i can hear anyway), coz she knows i don't give a fuck what anyone except her thinks of my body, but i know she's vunerable to comments about her, so i am as well.
To be honest Boo, ur lucky, in as much as you only have your own anger or distress to deal with, and not someone elses as well. If he doesn't care what they say about him, fuck 'em hun.
As for what position ur in, or how much he is or isn't doin, u have to ask urself this.......are you on cam for the benefit of others, or for ur own pleasure? If ur doin it for urselves (and i hope and assume u are from what u say) then why care what the eejits out there think? If ur about puttin on a show for others then u might have to think about gettin less out of it as it were, in order to give those watching a better performance. I think for most people there is an element of both, it just depends on the balance between the 2 as to which side of that particular line u stand on.
So, here's a big "fuck you" to all of those sad bastards who sit alone, and watch with their dicks in their hands, and cast aspersions because we don't look or behave like pornstars - here's a newsflash for you assholes......it's coz we ain't.
Sorry Boo, needed to get that off my chest.
Andy
My Lady D'Arbanville - it's either cat stevens or eric clapton (i think) talkin about the other one's wife Patti - appropriate for here i thought lol
andy
Long Hard Road Out Of Hell - Marilyn Manson
Andy
Escape From The killing Fields - Ice-T
jax
Its All Over Now Baby Blue - Manfred Manns Earth Band
An don't anyone get their knickers in a twist tellin me its a dylan song..... coz anything he ever wrote is sung better by someone else......:lol2:
Jax:smoke::inlove:
woohooo...spotted ye up there mrs tussey:P:P:boo:
i danced with my sister because i can't control myself
hmmmm....let me think about that one
andy
Jorge, Rose...hope ur reading all these things guys, ad it's makin ye smile. Those of us that know you will always stand beside you coz you make an effort for others. Fuck the rest of 'em, they know nothing.
take it easy kids
andy & jax
Wish You Were Here - Pink Floyd
Jax
by the time i get to phoenix.....frank sinatra
andy
well i don't really care as long as it's clean - shaving every couple of days is a real pain in the ass....i don't shave my face that often:grin: In favour of hair...hair on the pubic mound can help to provide friction when things get too slippy in certain positions.
andy
:inlove:Ahhhh Boo.... so nice to meet a fellow sufferer of the dreadful "foot in mouth" disease.......:bounce::bounce:....maybe we could form a support group.....:welcome::smile2:
Jax:smoke::inlove:
dont let the sun go down on me...elton john
andy
Dont You Want Me Baby - Human League
it was Game of Death tussey.....and bruce lee called chuck the best western martial artist he'd ever met by the way, which is some hell of a compliment
andy
Papa Was A Rolling Stone - The Temptations
...and don't forget many mens facination with shaved pudenda.
Role play (and that's what this was, let's not forget that) is a healthy way of exploring situations that u might not want to in real life, but u find arousing on an intelectual level....the fantasy, sex with total strangers, teacher-pupil, doctor-patient... the list is as long as ur imagination, and can often reveal latent sub/dom temdencies if allowed to run that far.:grin: It is entirely possible that this person had a fantasy as a youngster that involved a babysitter - is there really any harm in playing it out with a consenting adult? U may find it weird, but then who knows what ur fatasies are, and who might find them strange? (that's not aimed at anyone, just a general comment by the way).
If u have explained that u feel uncomfortable with the situation you have put the ball in thir court - either they will pursue it with you further, or they won't. I think u r right to back off, but only in as much as it does nothing for you. Maybe you could ask the person WHY they want to use that particular scenario, and then think about it?
andy
.Have to say herself was very understanding, and has never once used it as a stick to beat me with, thank fuck:-o.
Anyway, that's the only confession u will get out of me this year, so enjoy it - take the piss if u need to folks, somehow i feel i deserve it:giveup::doh:
andy
I sang to a fireman because I was too drunk....
Ohhh lordy sounds about right for mama.......
