Yes I am married but ideally am only looking for someone to have some fun with and brighten up both our lives together. Life should not be a journey to the grave. Please understand I am not here to break anyone's relationship up if you are currently in one! Discretion is assured and expected both ways. I'm hoping to meet one person and put in a spring in each others step for the day with a cheeky text...butterflies, bit o flirting, laughter, dinner, cinema, listening to music aka good sex (not a quick shag) etc. I want a man who ignites my spark and have that unmistakeable eye contact which makes me tingle with excitement and whose voice melts me. I want to smile when I see or hear from him. Wouldn't it be nice to be able to have a conversation deep into the night, suddenly realizing you have been talking for hours without noticing the time flying by...and not wanting the night to end? Seems like forever since I've had that feeling... Looking for that "missing spark" - Could it be you??? I want intimacy and adventure with a like minded person. I am emotionally mature, well balanced and am looking for a similar person. I would prefer if you were happy and content within yourself and would view this liaison as the chance to rediscover our sexuality, live out your fantasies etc...

What I Do Not Want:

I'd like to meet with someone whos easy going, interesting with intrigue and sexy!! I dont want to talk about work, politics & kids etc all the time. A bit of you and me time with a bit of craic in whatever shared interest we might do together (not necessarily cooking lol) and is open to experiencing new ones, is someone genuine, honest and who's fun to be around, who is comforable with the silences as well as enjoying the chat. I dont like pushy people, or people whom are very opinionated. I dont want to be owned or controlled. I dont want love. I dont have the time, the energy or the money - so if you get my meaning, you know if its you. We both have our seperate lives & discretion is essential. Although new to this, I'd be openminded, I am willing to be brought along. Lifes too short so lets just enjoy each moment. And yes you must not smoke, sorry.

My Ideal Person: Looking for a man who is honest, professional, intelligent, & attractive and who wants to share an oasis with me. Someone to dream and escape from reality now and then. Someone who doesn´t take life too seriously but not a clown at the same time. Sense of humour is a MUST....and someone who's not afraid.

To eliminate any more time wasters I have to start to get fussy and the following must apply:

No piercings

No tattoos

No beards

No pics of willies, cos I've seen them all on this site believe me!!!

No-one over 45

Preferable if you have your own hair and teeth

You wouldn't believe the amount of mail a woman gets on here and I've got to start filtering them out some how.