I firmy believe that life is for living, the only complaint i have about great nights out or even better great nights in is there is always a following morning...work to do etc...can't party on an empty wallet!!...I am a great lover of vodka...his lord ship seems to quiet like it too...makes him wanna party "all" nite..... Oh I think looks and personality are very important toto.. no spark is a waste of a very eventful evening!!