New to this and looking for advice. :-o Were a married couple looking for a bi female for some girl on girl fun - however, is it hard to find someone who doesnt mind starting out with an inexperience swinging couple or is everyone more a less experienced if their on a site like this. Our predicament is that I would like a girl to do me but not want to have sex with my husband but he can be in the bed with us? Is this a normal ok request or would a threesome like this be too mild??