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bonnyclyde
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 64
Straight Male, 66
0 km · Wexford

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Bonns here the last meet and greet just brought it home to us that we no longer feel we can stay on the have out grown it WE DO NOT LIKE THE POLITICS ON SITE some people think they have the god given right to put people down and treat them like shit we sat back and watched it in action over the weekend. I like to thank Gerry and Mary for all the effort they have put in over the last was it worth the grief you get no thanks from certain section of the swing screen who attend but just don't not know how to behave. We have met and made friends from here and will still be in touch. Gerry and Mary I wish you luck with the black tie event. WE know it will be a success because you are great at organising these events. SO I like to say good bye to every one who knows us and wish you all good luck on the site we have enjoyed our time on here which is about 6 years we seen how it has changed and some changes have been good others changes not so good. The Site Is for All Who Join Not The Certain Few. GOOD BYE ALL BONNYCLYDE
Thank you Mary and GER for a fantastic night Mr Mrs Looney the music was fab as always. It was great meeting new and old (PEEPS) What a lovely mix of people good luck with the next one Ger & Mary LOTS AND LOTS OF LOVE Bonns & Clyde xxxxxxxxx
happy birthday mary hope you have a great day see u wed will have a cake for u love you lots bonns clyde allybaba
Hi all bonns here i am putting it out there would anyone be interested in a meet and greet for the 40 +. As we were thinking off running one as a few members were just saying in passing that they don't get invites to parties because of there age. Well we were wondering if we were to run one would you be interested if so could you Please lets us know and we see what the feed back is then we will try organise one bonnyclyde. OK the 40+ meet and greet will not be going ahead due to the fact we will no longer be on site I like to thank all who were interested.
I am sorry i don't know what the legalities are but he has since got the message and now will say hi when i am on my own and wont enter my space which i am so happy about.
Ok I know I go on cam and that I have shown my face and I do understand that ill be recognised, but it does not give some people the right to come up to me in college when I am with friends and say hi bonny and when I didn't react to them saying hi they went out of there way to embarrass me. My friends do not know I am on site this happened 3 times this week. I am sorry but I did not know who you were on site and I don't want to know as when not on this site I am a nobody, they have made me so uncomfortable now I dread going in I would never go out of my way to get some one,s attention like this. Only speak to me on site as Bonny please. What goes on site stays on site so please if you want to say hi do it when I am on my own and not with friends,use your common sense please. Show respect as I would show to you. My friends asked me what was all that I just passed it off. Look we are all adults on here show respect please. We all have lives outside of swing,sorry about my rant but I am very very angry. BONNY
i did not aim this at anyone in particular but i do take offence to people who think they have the god given right to be rude and uptight we all get out of swing what we put into it . we all have what we like or dislike and should respect each others individual difference. Yes you might be known but i am also known also their are lots of other people who are well known I don't go out to hurt or shame people and I certainly don't expect people to follow . I know that people know who I am and that I do not set out to hurt people. I see that we are all the same on here wanting the same thing funnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn that is what it is about funnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn not bitching and moaning which of late that all seems to be all that is going on Bonns
OK we are all adults on this site well at least i thought we were the meet and greet went great last week it was up to everyone to enjoy themselves. from what went on last night in the chat room people offended other people who gave up there night to entertain all who were there. everyone got what they wanted out of i was hurt to see friends who went out of there way and put the night on to be slagged it is not on theses people have been on site a very long time and know lots of people all over Ireland. I feel there is a power struggle here and that some people feel it is ok to slag off others dubcplmg did a great. dubcplmg please dont mind the begrudge rs i know that my profile says 2008 but been on here since 2004 and have seen people come and go i have seen power struggles between people trying to get themselves known dubcplmg has been on here and is not involved in any sort of power games all on here known them from the chat rooms and also meeting at parties they are the nicest people you could come across. they have helped with parties in myyyyyyyyyyyy home which were fab parties there was no age limits as in been older or size everyone was treated the same that is what swing is about all treated the same ok i better finish as i am so annoyed that people are so childish and don't have the guts to say how they felt on the night but instead just come on site and slag in the chat rooms. OK thanks all for reading Bonn's
I LIKE TO THANK MARY AND GERRY FOR A GREAT WEEKEND HERE TO THE NEXT ONE LOVE YOU GUYS TO BITS A BIG THANK YOU BONNYCLYDE XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
I am sorry to hear what some gob shit did no cop on at all this has happened to myself in a supermarket all i can say is hold ur head high and give that gob-shit a swift kick in the u know whats you should name and shame him Bonns
well i hate to say this but people who wait in the back ground and jump ship leaving friends take the fall for others and then cosy up to others just to keep in with the in crowd
awe titan did i say this i don't think so So the rest of The mod team are window dressing i am sorry you feel you are a window dressing i think you are more like a big teddy bear who loves to be cuddled i hope your soup did not get too cold well there always the microwave to heat it back up look i did not mean for any one to take offence Bonnyclyde
o my o my did i say this was a mod bashing tread i did not and i wish that people would not take offence what i said is my opinion Titan i though in most cases I imagine it is frustration and incomprehensibility that a mod might be so bold as to impose a particular site rule on individuals,possibly due to an assumed 'terms' with the same mod,) and in logical assumptions getting wrists slapped equates to being so called 'black marked'. **that's where the Impartiality element of being a Mod comes into play, same rules for everyone! Titan well i am not going to get into any he said this and she did that crap as that is for children i am sorry if i upset some people but it is an adult site get over it as for black marks never got any on this site only at parties and only on request lol Bonnyclyde
well said laoiscpl you have said what a lot of people want to say but are afriad in case there is a black mark on them well i don't think we should be afriad to speak out as with out people the site would not thrive
An ideal candidate has to be a professional representative with good customer service and communicational skill-sets, be available daily, and most importantly gel into the current team. Voting systems can be considered a popularity contest which could cause friction. Having said that, it's healthy. Voting systems can be considered a popularity contest well i am sorry to say that even with out this there is a popularity contest on here i am sorry to say as the mods that left had all this and more ok this is the last thing i going to write on the subject as the people who knew these people know how they worked all i can say is they be a loss to the site Bonnyclyde
i feel that some had no choice but leave as they have a lot of respect for themselves and the people who they served on this site i just hope the site is able to lose these people because who moderates the moderate i just feel that we as the people who are on the site should be able to have a say on who becomes a mod like a VOTING system as this would be a fair if i offend anyone i don't mean too as i feel so strong about what is happening on the site. we are all meant to be adults on here but some times it feels like a crèche. thank you for letting me voice my opinion Bonnyclyde
hi vanity i am sadden to see the mods that will go out of their way to help are gone and who put a lot of work in to make sure that the site was fair and that if u need some advice you could ask 2 mods in particular who have been on this site a lot longer then some who have manners and respect for themselves and others on site they were fair .i been on this site for the last 6 to 7 years and have seen people come and go well Admin i hope you knew what your were doing as these mods were loyal to the site.i hope that i will not get a brush off for writing this but with out us peeps and i mean all the people who make up this site you would have no site.i am going to miss these mods as they were easy to chat to and would include u in the chat as some on here exclude others and some times take over the chat in the room i just feel that it is a loss Bonnyclyde
Great post as usual Mr B, however as a longtime member I'm sure you already know that a lot of people are less than honest on here. Not only with their profiles, but in the way they conduct themselves also. We have always been upfront and honest with people, sometimes bluntly honest, just a pity everyone else isn't the same. Too many bull$hitters and self-important and self-centred ar$eholes around that couldn't comprehend the meaning of honesty. But at least a lot of them play together which makes it easy to avoid them well said as we have been on here a long time we still meet some wasters sorry but that is what i am calling them .Bonnyclyde are real peeps and our profile is a few lines not a long story but why o why do people put things on there profile when it is not them at all when you meet the Clyde and i what you see is what you get i do not hide that we are bbw and that what we want out of the site but we are honest and trustworthy and expect the same but a lot of peeps are not so i like to thank all the people who we have met and played with we haved had fab nights of fun but to the ones who just dont know how to play please please if ur not sure what you want dont arrange a meet it is for the best sorry for my rant but it makes me mad this is a very good post BONNYCLYDE
well worship it happens all the time it makes me mad especially when you go to the trouble of looking good and feeling good and arranging a hotel booked in and u get a text sorry cant make it some thing come up or not getting a text is worse well all i can say is they all missed out on a good night keep Ur chin up worship as we all know u is a real women that theses peeps would not know how to treat a real women Bonnyclydexxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
H1 all had a fab weekend and our company made it even better thank you to you kow who u are lol
Thank you all everyone for ur birthday wishes xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx:rose:
The Bonns
Crass adjective, -er, -est. 1. without refinement, delicacy, or sensitivity; gross; obtuse; stupid (Dictionary definition) I cam , and have been know on occasion to 'get'emoff' as you so eloquently put it. I find myself offended by your tone of phase regarding cammers, ,and considering you have in your profile , that one of your fantasies is to watch people,declaring us as a “'get'emoff' brigade following it with that we can “be as crass as they like in” seems a poor choice of words. I seldom get sensitive over posts in here, but I felt I had to respond to this one. As has often been said before if people dont like the cams turn them off., and chat away. _________________ Slightly X well said slightly if u dont like the cam then switch it off u have the facility to do that in the chat room on the page u have open x marks the spot bonnyclyde
awe thank you suzie i will try to the clyde taking me away for the weekend so it should be funnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn