For an adult site, I have to say that I've seen really childish behavior by the 'mods'. I was banned for a day for helping someone use the icons (I had the audacity to actually respond to a 'mod' trying to defend myself). Seems like there's a little clique on the chat and they get to kick people without any defense. It's a bit hard to take when some of us supported the site before the video chat. Sorry to see female39 banned, if there's another swinging site please let me know about it! Competition can only be good.