I have just recently returned from Nee York where I've been based for the past 10 years. I've been in the "lifestyle" for a few years so know what single girls or couples expect from a guy. I have total respect for females especially if they are new, and like to put people at ease with some humor and relaxing fun. I prefer to give than receive if you know what I mean and like to give the woman a nice full body massage before she wants to move on . Nice candles and music and hit towels are a necessity..!!!!