It’s a long time time I visited this site so I thought a total rewrite of my profile is in order. So here goes. I’ll outline a little personal history, my wants and needs and of course what I can offer.

I am a mature happy wife with a loving husband, which is good as I feel I can be extremely open and honest because I know what I want. Of course I ask for similar.

A brief history.

I cuckolded my husband for probably a decade up to Covid, with his support. To be honest it was a fun time with several long term boyfriends and a few one offs with various guys. Through work we traveled a lot and this travel gave rise to a very successful naughty sex life, far away from old friends and family members. Sadly as we moved I lost some awesome lovers but this wasn’t bad as more often than not an equally awesome lover would step in the fill the gap (literally).

We moved to rural Laois in 2017, I did see a couple of guys but the onset of Covid took everything off the boil. Sadly I never got back into it and now I’m of the frame of mind I’d like to revisit that fun lifestyle.

I’d prefer a regular guy, although I have had one offs and accept if the chemistry for a long term relationship isn’t right it will probably be just one off. However it is a regular arrangement I’m chasing. I’ll outline a couple of previous long term guys in my life to give you an insight. They are great examples. 2 guys at different times. Both worked hard, one had his own business. At least one had been married, been through a shitty divorce and didn’t want a girlfriend, the other simply didn’t have time for a girlfriend. However they both were highly sexed and wanted dirty no strings sex. Of course that is where Jan came in.

I saw both guys for well over a year, both with and without my husband. One for about 20 months. I call them boyfriends but the reality was there was no dating, drinks or social get togethers. It was just sex, being blunt (I said I can be honest) they both just come around to fuck me as when! It was a pretty regular arrangement with both, one guy would pop out of work to see various clients on a Friday. Needless to say he’d pop around to mine for an hour or so. No one ever questioned it and tbh Friday mornings were my favourite time of the week. I only worked 4 days so it really set me up for the weekend. Sometimes my husband was there sometimes not.

The second guy would just call when he fancied sex, or I’d call him when I was up for it. We’d hook up about once every 2/3 weeks, again it was a long term arrangement, about 16 months. We’d meet at ours or maybe a hotel room. Again my husband might be there. Literally depended on how we felt. I don’t mind admitting it gets me off him watching me. It’s the ultimate a husband watching your wife get fucked. Both guys loved it as I suppose the competitive nature in a guy rises to the surface. A guy always wants to fuck a wife better than the husband.

About the husband.

My husband is extremely supportive and has very much a beta role in the bedroom, he basically does as he’s told. Which is fun as I have a very naughty and extremely wicked streak regarding the role of a cuckold husband in the bedroom. I don’t mind admitting I have certain kinks. It’s strange as he is definitely an alpha in everything in life except the bedroom, which I’m definitely not complaining about as it suits me that way. The bedroom is my domain. He is extremely supportive and as said he has been cuckolded with many guys over many years. I’m happy to be a slut in front of my husband for the right guy.

What I want and what I don’t want.

I believe now it is pretty obvious but I will outline what I want. I want a guy(s) in my life other than my husband. It will be for sex. Hopefully regular sex, as and when it can be arranged. I don’t want a relationship beyond a guy(s) popping round to fuck me. So if you want or are looking for something more than that please move on. I love my husband dearly so there is no luring me away. It has happened before. Look for me on FaceBook and I’ll drop you like a hot potato.

I did say guys as in plural, I am not averse to an arrangement with a couple of guys. A pair of good friends, brothers maybe with a naughty sense of adventure. 2 guys are fun, I just won’t want to work out the logistics of 2 strangers myself. But if a couple of guys reached out I’d be happy to consider moving forward. I say “moving forward,” it sounds quite formal, what I mean is I’d consider having sex with the 2 of them. It would be an exciting twist on the cuckold thing. I’ve “done” 2 guys before, more times than I like to think, but just not in front of my husband.

Myself and husband did put rules in place re; who I have sex with. One rule was I don’t have sex with friends. I do stick to that rule but being honest I have sometimes become friends with the guys who are fucking me. That I accept cannot be helped, however I do try to keep normal life and a naughty sex life very separate. So discretion is a must.

With the above in mind I’d like a guy(s) close but not too close. So please if you live at the other end of the country it isn’t going to work. Don’t waste your time. I’d like a guy 30/40 minutes away. Close enough for when the need arises, far enough away so I don’t bump into the guy(s) I’m screwing in Dunnes or the local pub.

From a cuckold perspective I’d like a guy bigger than my husband. Which to be honest isn’t too much of a challenge. He isn’t a big guy. I’d like a guy on the scene open and happy with the cuck stuff. As said it gets me off. I can go into more detail later.

What I can offer

Obviously I’ve given my wants, needs in what might be quite a transactional arrangement so what I can offer is sex on speed dial, perhaps even sex delivered to your door by the husband. I can accommodate with visits to mine, so I can readily make a bed available. Another guy taking me on the marital bed is always fun. Knowing my husband will climb into it when it smells of sex is always a buzz.

Previous arrangements with guys, especially the long term guys have worked out with them having priority over me. Yes if both a boyfriend and my husband wanted to fuck me it wasn’t going to be my husband that was as going to get any relief. I would however be there for a boyfriend. I would do my best to make myself available for a boyfriend. For a boyfriend I’ll happily be his “Martini” girl “ “anytime, anyplace, anywhere.” Again being totally honest and blunt for the right guy I’ll be a total whore. A total whore in front of my husband.

Myself and my husband agreed many years ago now on the rules, we even drew up a contract that we stick to. I have 100% sex to offer, whatever 100% is. Because there is another guy around it doesn’t mean there is more sex on offer. I am a woman not a machine so the 100% sex will always be what I’m comfortable with. Here is the crux of a guy takes 70% of sex from

me there will be only 30% left for my husband. If a boyfriend takes 80% there will be even less for my husband. That was always the arrangement. It has worked for us as an arrangement as well.

So in summary I have given an awful lot of info in this profile. I do take my time in trying to get the right guy, so hear with me. Sadly I’ve been stung before so I do try to get it right when I invite guys to my bed. If my word’s resonate with your own thoughts and have sparked an interest please contact and we can see where we go.

One thought, if you respond with an automated response “check out my profile” I won’t bother. So in any response please put some effort in, I did.

Hopefully talk soon J