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Pitstop
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 64
Ireland
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In response to Eden's thread:
Hey! Chatting to girls on the site, it's apparent that many of the same things annoy us. So girls, add to this list, comment if these annoy you too or not! Boys, read and learn...
1. Asking how long have you've been on the site? Read my profile, it’s on top of the page.
1a - We can read.
2. Whispering without permission – you don’t know what it’s like to be a girl on the site – we get hounded sometimes, our screens get full of whispers and we miss what’s going on in the chatroom.
2a Us boys sometimes expirience that also.
3. Asking do you meet many?. Again, look at my profile. I meet. I’m genuine. I’m not a messer. That’s all you need to know, it’s none of your business how many I meet.
3a Boys, with any sense would never ask that question.
4. If you’re coming to my house, bring something. A bottle of wine, a packet of biscuits, anything. I’d never visit anyone without bringing something; it’s a common courtesy.
4a That's only polite and expected!
5. Provide condoms and dispose of them afterwards. If you’re in a girl’s house ask her where she’d like them disposed. The eco friend in me gets annoyed when they’re flushed down the toilet though I know that is some girls’ preference.
5a It's a Girls responsibility too!
6. Asking in chat as one of your first questions 'what are you into?' I'm into sex. What do you think I'm into on a swing site? Em, who are you? Do you really think I'm going to tell you the finer details of my sexual preferences.
6a Why even answer in the chat?
Right! who's next? Lets be having ye!!!
Hey! Chatting to girls on the site, it's apparent that many of the same things annoy us. So girls, add to this list, comment if these annoy you too or not! Boys, read and learn...
1. Asking how long have you've been on the site? Read my profile, it’s on top of the page.
1a - We can read.
2. Whispering without permission – you don’t know what it’s like to be a girl on the site – we get hounded sometimes, our screens get full of whispers and we miss what’s going on in the chatroom.
2a Us boys sometimes expirience that also.
3. Asking do you meet many?. Again, look at my profile. I meet. I’m genuine. I’m not a messer. That’s all you need to know, it’s none of your business how many I meet.
3a Boys, with any sense would never ask that question.
4. If you’re coming to my house, bring something. A bottle of wine, a packet of biscuits, anything. I’d never visit anyone without bringing something; it’s a common courtesy.
4a That's only polite and expected!
5. Provide condoms and dispose of them afterwards. If you’re in a girl’s house ask her where she’d like them disposed. The eco friend in me gets annoyed when they’re flushed down the toilet though I know that is some girls’ preference.
5a It's a Girls responsibility too!
6. Asking in chat as one of your first questions 'what are you into?' I'm into sex. What do you think I'm into on a swing site? Em, who are you? Do you really think I'm going to tell you the finer details of my sexual preferences.
6a Why even answer in the chat?
Right! who's next? Lets be having ye!!!
Quote by user=desdemona
Sometimes I wish that people werent allowed, when they see two people with a difference of opinion in a forum thread..... that weren't allowed to repeatedly, over and over and over again stand on the sidelines fanning the flames....inciting trouble.....doing what the can to instigate dis-harmony and goading others so much that they may feel the need to retaliate, only to be again ridiculed by said people. Who then claim the moral high ground and smuggly claim victory on behalf of others, when the person says....ok, i see your view or says that they dont want to go any further with the discussion.
When it is a forum....people have different opinions...whether someone agrees or not does not give others the right to BULLY, yes i said BULLY, others under the guise of being funny or mockingly joking about a fight happening.
Thread after thread I have read the same people doing this over and over again.
Putting lol or a smiley face does not a joke make..... forums on other sites come down heavily on this type of incitement and bullying......maybe its about time this site did too and stopped this behaviour before it becomes more acceptable than it already is!
