Not sure if this site is for me but I'll give it a go. I'm married and that won't be changing. Kids have flown the nest so it's "Me Time". Other half is a very successful businessman which takes up most of his time. I like to look after myself and exercise regularly. I'm looking for someone special who is in the same position as me. A friend with benefits Lol.  Sorry no single guys as I need my partner in crime to have as much to loose as I have. I not into looks but any potential partner must take care of themselves.  I can't stand sloppiness or people who don't look after their appearance.  You would need to keep up with with me in a 5K walk. And guys don't bombard me with "dick pics" as it is a total turn off. I worked in the healthcare industry for many years so I could write a thesis on that part of the male body. Wont be jumping into bed with the first man who contacts me. There will have to be a connection there. I also find a man who can hold a conversation about something other than sport an attractive feature.