So yes, almost 5 months here now and I have to admit that things have gone pretty well. I still don't feel like 'a swinger' as such (still feel like a complete newbie), but I am enjoying the escape dating provides. Have made some cool friends & connections. What have I learnt so far? Oh I don't know. Maybe that: -It's probably better to have a quick call early on. To make sure everyone is who they say they are :-) -It's possibly unwise to have face pics in your 'friends only' photos. -I was surprised to discover that I have no problem (actually rather enjoy) being watched. (By persons in the same room I mean :-) ...camming? Less so) -If you want to retain some sort of anonymity or discretion maybe double check your first and last name aren't on your before giving it out!!! (I now have 1 friend I hope we stay friends...she has my full name!!!) -Oh..& it turns out I'm a kinky enough divil ;-) Have also made tonnes of mistakes & I have a special talent for regularly saying the wrong thing at the wrong time. Kindly bear with me as I keep digging here (yes 'bear' is correct. It is not 'bare'. I.e, I am asking for forbearance. I just googled that! Anyway...I digress). But as I said from the off (back in August) I am still Single. Straight. Handsome. Fit. Tall. I have a full head of hair, but not very hairy anywhere else! Interested in straight or bi 9mMN4ASLWYtjpsAS is  ballsdeeptwice you can message me there