hotel meets

Hi folks,just wondering is there any nice cheap hotels where couples meet, my partner and i like to try and get away at least once every month and have no idea where people go to meet, its not always about sex, friendship and a few drinks and a bit of craic is good too of course if anything else goes down thats good too, there must be a few couples like us out there, not experienced swingers and a bit shy or at least Mary is, thanks for reading and hope we get some replys, 

hi folks    when u coming to clare as will look after hotel for ye    JOHN