very nervous

5 Aug 2010

Hey, Ive been around the site for a while now but never went any further, The main reason i have not met anybody is i am way too shy. I am also attached but i need a little more from my sex life which i am not getting but i am also very devoted to my other half so i figure this is my best option. I probably sound like a hypocrite right now but I'm just being honest. I would more than likely want to meet a single female or maybe a very accommodating couple first because of my shyness. Anyhoo, nice to meet you all

14 Aug 2010

:welcome: Just hope your other half doesnt find out :taz::haha:

17 Aug 2010

hey irish boy, im pretty much in the same shoes as urself, in a long term relationship myself, mad about her but the sex is boring and were not having enough to satisfy my high sex drive. after my first meet i felt a bit guilty for a short term and was nervious id let something slip. but after that and after each other meet i seem to show her more attention and even love her more. weird and fucked up i know but thats how i feel. smile

17 Aug 2010

Seems I am in the exact situation as you guys. Unfortunately I want the best of both worlds, I want to lead the single life and meet random strangers for a laugh but I also have no intention of finishing my long term relationship. I don't think I am going to get anywhere with this site though it seems people only want to talk if you have a face pic(totally understandable) but under no circumstances can I put one up :-( Have to say the crowd on here seems to be really decent so I won't give up just yet there seems to be some really genuine decent ladies and men for that matter.

21 Aug 2010

Hi Irish Boy :wave2: I think a lot of people are shy, but there's nothing to be worried about - just get talking to people in chat! We don't bite...well i mean, they don't bite!:happy: Maybe you could try out a meet and greet? It's a nice relaxing way to at least but some names to faces, as it's just drinks...what you do after that is your own business!:boo: As for being attached, honesty is often the best policy!You never know, maybe she'd be interested in it! :giggle:

22 Aug 2010

Just putting in my two cents. I have no problem meeting with a guy that is attached if their partner knows about their swinging. I am not comfortable however meeting with a man whose partner does not know. To each their own.

29 Aug 2010

Well at least you are honest. I suppose everyone is nervous and a little shy when they first get into this scene. But that will soon pass.