Verification

2 Jun 2012

Hi Everyone, Obviously the male community is in the majority, or so it seems, on here. I've noticed that most single female or couples profiles that I'm interested in state that they will ignore all members who are not member verified. If you are a newbie on here how do you go about becoming verified if the only genuine people that will verify you won't do so unless you are already verified?? It seems like a vicious circle but maybe I'm just being cynical lol The chatroom seems quite daunting as most people already seem to have developed some type of bond so it's difficult to integrate on there (although I usually have my webcam on to prove that I exist). Any help/advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks Daz

2 Jun 2012

Hi Daz, First of all welcome to the site we're not all a scary bunch. :eeek::swingingchair::welcome: On getting verified, we where all once non verified members obviously everyone has different preferences as to whom they will or wont meet so I wouldnt get too worried about it. Try and get a long to a Meet & Greet advertised in the "Lets Meet" these are a great way to meet people on a social level, get your face and name out there. Verification really isnt the be all and end all of everything. Chat can be a little daunting but there are some very friendly folk in there if you persist and try to join in you will get along just fine. Word of note though dont whisper, its a sure fire way to get ignored or at the very least ask in main first. Thats my nuggets worth....good luck, and enjoy.... wink