To real couples and large ladies

6 Aug 2007

Hi all We are a couple and new to this ,we find alot of single guys just want to meet and wham bang thank you man. Also as wife is a bigger lady guys say no thanks. Well thats where you are wrong i have heard from others even when so called swingers meet up if you are not in a certain size party cancelled. We ourselves do not judge on size we judge on the person no matter what size. So if there is any real couples or bigger girls who should not be ashamed of their bodies please contact us even if it goes no where as in sex the chat is fine, Also to all single guys you are not being told no but if you start thinking of the girls feelings you may get futher. As i was told years ago think of the girls feeelings ask her what she wants not what you want and if there is more meat more to cling onto

13 Aug 2007

Quote by user=dubcplmg
Hi all
We are a couple and new to this ,we find alot of single guys just want to meet and wham bang thank you man. Also as wife is a bigger lady guys say no thanks. Well thats where you are wrong i have heard from others even when so called swingers meet up if you are not in a certain size party cancelled.
We ourselves do not judge on size we judge on the person no matter what size.
So if there is any real couples or bigger girls who should not be ashamed of their bodies please contact us even if it goes no where as in sex the chat is fine,
Also to all single guys you are not being told no but if you start thinking of the girls feelings you may get futher.
As i was told years ago think of the girls feeelings ask her what she wants not what you want and if there is more meat more to cling onto

well said...myself being a lil bigger, can understand where you coming from, altho iv no prob pulling in the blokes. up until 4 yrs ago i was a size 10 waist long blonde hair...and have some very hardcore pix on some swinger sites, i became ill for a while piled on a load of weight!
yet im still the same person, do the same things...and have the same feelings! and wen iv had the 'odd' turn dwn frm a bloke..well not bothered in the slightest! just think to myself...if ya had of been in on sum of the things i gt up 2, u wudda been a vry lucky boi! without bragging, im the most outgoin funniest person u wud ever meet...so i keep getin told...
so yip, some of u shud open ur eyes, forget the extra weight, look beneath!!
bubble

6 Sep 2007

WELL SAID ,AND FAIR PLAY TO YOU,S

10 Sep 2007

Don't worry about it, with those sort of people, its best off that they do cancel, at least then you're rid of the people that aren't really best for you. Not, to be honest, that I'm saying that everyone who doesn't find a woman of a larger figure is shallow of course, you like what you like. But don't bother worrying about those that don't like it, worry about meeting those that do, because there is plenty of them for whom its not an issue (like us) and it shouldn't hinder you finding a nice couple.

22 Feb 2008

I much prefer bigger girls, I must say. Give me Dawn French over Kate Moss anyday! lol. Everybody's different and each to their own and all that and, if a guy only likes skinny girls then that's his business but, to be honest, he really doesn't know what he's missing out on if he refuses to try a bigger girl. The best sex I've ever had has been with bigger girls. I don't know what it is about them but they totally ROCK! lol. And, I think if a guy who normally only goes for skinnier girls was to just take the plunge and try a big girl for once, he'd be pleasantly surprised. In fact, I wouldn't be surprised if he never went back! lol. In the words of Mika...... big girls, you *ARE* beautiful! ;-) And, how can we forget the immortal words of Spinal Tap...... The bigger the cushion, the sweeter the pushin', That's what I said. The looser the waistband, the deeper the quicksand, Or so I have read. My baby fits me like a flesh tuxedo. I'd like to sink her with my pink torpedo. Big bottom, big bottom. Talk about bum cakes, my girl's got 'em. Big bottom drive me out of my mind. How could I leave this behind? 'Nuff said! lol.

24 Feb 2008

Quote by user=fiery_leprechaun
I much prefer bigger girls, I must say. Give me Dawn French over Kate Moss anyday! lol.
Everybody's different and each to their own and all that and, if a guy only likes skinny girls then that's his business but, to be honest, he really doesn't know what he's missing out on if he refuses to try a bigger girl. The best sex I've ever had has been with bigger girls. I don't know what it is about them but they totally ROCK! lol. And, I think if a guy who normally only goes for skinnier girls was to just take the plunge and try a big girl for once, he'd be pleasantly surprised. In fact, I wouldn't be surprised if he never went back! lol.
In the words of Mika...... big girls, you *ARE* beautiful! ;-)
And, how can we forget the immortal words of Spinal Tap......
The bigger the cushion, the sweeter the pushin',
That's what I said.
The looser the waistband, the deeper the quicksand,
Or so I have read.
My baby fits me like a flesh tuxedo.
I'd like to sink her with my pink torpedo.
Big bottom, big bottom.
Talk about bum cakes, my girl's got 'em.
Big bottom drive me out of my mind.
How could I leave this behind?
'Nuff said! lol.

well said,
i myself am a bigger girl, but dont care what others think, not to sound totally big headed, but i know i look good with it,
:P
lets chat sometime
Maj Xx

25 Feb 2008

Quote by user=fiery_leprechaun
I much prefer bigger girls, I must say. Give me Dawn French over Kate Moss anyday! lol.
Everybody's different and each to their own and all that and, if a guy only likes skinny girls then that's his business but, to be honest, he really doesn't know what he's missing out on if he refuses to try a bigger girl. The best sex I've ever had has been with bigger girls. I don't know what it is about them but they totally ROCK! lol. And, I think if a guy who normally only goes for skinnier girls was to just take the plunge and try a big girl for once, he'd be pleasantly surprised. In fact, I wouldn't be surprised if he never went back! lol.
In the words of Mika...... big girls, you *ARE* beautiful! ;-)
And, how can we forget the immortal words of Spinal Tap......
The bigger the cushion, the sweeter the pushin',
That's what I said.
The looser the waistband, the deeper the quicksand,
Or so I have read.
My baby fits me like a flesh tuxedo.
I'd like to sink her with my pink torpedo.
Big bottom, big bottom.
Talk about bum cakes, my girl's got 'em.
Big bottom drive me out of my mind.
How could I leave this behind?
'Nuff said! lol.

Damn right. I adore big girls and see way more too-skinny types who look like young boys in makeup than anything I would classify as "too big".
You just know Dawn French would be tremendous in bed!
Anyay, people who are so shallow probably aren't as much fun in the sack as you might think. After all, they don't feel the need to, they think it's all about how you look. people like that don't know that 90% of good sex is done with the mind.
I'm a big guy myself and I honestly believe I'm better in bed because of it!
And i'm willing to prove it, too! smile

26 Feb 2008

just read the comments and agree with all, beauty is only skin deep and is definately in the eyes of the beholder, an initial attraction to a person can come in many ways and not necessiarily is an extremely immature, shallow and inexperienced person that alloys one of their senses to over rule their other four. mad

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27 Feb 2008

Wow - at LAST, thanks for the post. I'm a big guy (18 stone - 6 ft) and have always found 'large' girls/women more attractive. HOWEVER, sizeism is alive & well alright as I have been told in varying degrees of 'politeness' when exchanging pictures. Not EVERYONE is thin!!! As a guy that has had feelings damaged by insensitive & at times absolute rude comments, if everyone looked the same God help us all. Have some consideration - you may be thinner than me or large women, but if you display your lack of sensitivity by caustic remarks or cancelling meets due to a person's size - well that says a LOT about YOU!
Rgds
Gerry

Quote by user=dubcplmg
Hi all
We are a couple and new to this ,we find alot of single guys just want to meet and wham bang thank you man. Also as wife is a bigger lady guys say no thanks. Well thats where you are wrong i have heard from others even when so called swingers meet up if you are not in a certain size party cancelled.
We ourselves do not judge on size we judge on the person no matter what size.
So if there is any real couples or bigger girls who should not be ashamed of their bodies please contact us even if it goes no where as in sex the chat is fine,
Also to all single guys you are not being told no but if you start thinking of the girls feelings you may get futher.
As i was told years ago think of the girls feeelings ask her what she wants not what you want and if there is more meat more to cling onto

27 Feb 2008

I personally find that kind of shallow "i'm so hot" attitude to be incredibly unattractive anyway. Although i do find it funny that these people will go around with their noses in the air thinking everyone's checking them out when most are probably thinking "what a dick!" smile

28 Feb 2008

Quote by user=jimmybones
I personally find that kind of shallow "i'm so hot" attitude to be incredibly unattractive anyway. Although i do find it funny that these people will go around with their noses in the air thinking everyone's checking them out when most are probably thinking "what a dick!"

Must agree with you Jimmy

4 Mar 2008

Quote by user=alfie1608
I personally find that kind of shallow "i'm so hot" attitude to be incredibly unattractive anyway. Although i do find it funny that these people will go around with their noses in the air thinking everyone's checking them out when most are probably thinking "what a dick!"

Must agree with you Jimmy
Actually i've been thinking a lot about this lately and I was wondering if there's any way to seek out BBWs for meets? Ideas anyone?

6 Mar 2008

hi all, this is a great thread and finally someone has the nuts to point out how many pig headed supermodels and adonises there are in this lifestyle. I don't understand why other people involved in this would exclude other couples or won't even consider them just because they have a larger figure, underneath is what counts. We are neither, and are more than happy to meet other ample or full figure couples. No Single Males tho. Chat us sometime. JP. smile

6 Mar 2008

hey all i have to say fairplay for this being brought up too.... beauty is in the eye of the beholder and every one is attracted too all different shapes, sizes and colours etc...... but i have to say myself and my hubby think personality is extremely important where swinging is concerned because you wont be able to do stuff with people you ain't comfortable with and get on with.... some people might be very good looking but have very ugly personalities ... so we wish all yous the best in finding what is best for yas ......