Cheating on her behind her back makes you a low life, simple as. If she's not into it, then I'm sorry, but unless she changes her mind willingly or you end the relationship, then swinging is NOT for you. Nothing more to it as far as we'd be concerned.
Hi Gordo,
Had to reply as that is my situ too, but Im a femael , love my man to bits but not into sex at all, I know he loves me and I get all the love and affection I need from him but I LOVE SEX, I so wish I didnt because I couldnt even dream about the risk but I feel I'm playing online , and afterward I have a play with my rabbit and get into bed beside my prince.
Hi Gordo,
Had to reply as that is my situ too, but Im a femael , love my man to bits but not into sex at all, I know he loves me and I get all the love and affection I need from him but I LOVE SEX, I so wish I didnt because I couldnt even dream about the risk but I feel I'm playing online , and afterward I have a play with my rabbit and get into bed beside my prince.
Are there any couples on this site??? or is it just a meeting point for all those attached who want to cheat on their partners who they love and adore so much....
M and D
I think the point was if things aren't working out then why bother staying in the relationship and be a rat
Well, we are not here to judge anyone, each to their own in all of these matters. We are all adults here, we all have our wants and our needs. swinging is for consenting adults. We are a couple and both of us had different ideas of what we wanted from swinging. However, at the start, dave had some things he wanted to try that I wasnt into and I had some things I wanted to try that he wasnt into. So we figured out what we both wanted to try TOGETHER and discarded the rest. we are after all doing this as a couple. I guess that if you are in a relationship with someone you love and you want to swing but your partner does not, then you have to make a choice. its kinda one or the other. either she means too much to you to go behind her back and swing anyway, or she doesnt. in which case its not a good recipe for a long lasting loving relationship and you should be single. But thats just an opinion from our point of you. We would at the same time, not judge you whatever you decide. its ur business!
