New couple

26 Sep 2012

Hi everyone we are a couple in our 30s and we have never swung before but are couriois, as the topic says we are a bit nervous but like to try it out as the thoughts of it really turns the both of us on especially after a few drinks. We don't know if we would like a full swap maybe some same room fun first. Or if anyone knew of some no pressure clubs where Debs could dress up (as she really likes that). Our ideal couple would be around the same age as us and couriois also. Cheers Owen.

27 Sep 2012

Why dont you jump into chat for a while so you can start taking to people and consider going to a few of the meet and greets that are advertised in the lets meet up forum. That way you can get to meet people socially and you can see how you both feel in a no pressure enviroment and take it from there. Also spend some time on your profile so people can get a feel for what you are about. Pictures are also a help usually and they dont have to be anything raunchy or face shots if you dont want them to be, and you can also leave them private and only send them to those you would like to send them to. Its all a bit daunting at first when you are new but i am sure that you will settle in before you know it, but you will only get out of the lifestyle what you are prepared to put into it, but if you make an effort now and get yourself known i am sure you will reap the rewards before you know it. Sean