I was self conscious about my appearance before joining the site, I can't say i've ever considered myself attractive in the past. I hadn't been chatted up or asked out in years before joining, and figured it must be because I was unattractive. Since joining the site though my confidence is improving all the time. I have had so many positive remarks both in mails and in person, with no one seeming to take any notice of my own scars or other flaws. The positive response I've had from the site has made me much more accepting of myself on a physical level. I might not be everyones cup of tea, but thats ok, the odd negative mail is unpleasant but all the lovely mails make up for it.
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Newbie, great to see your confidence is on the up ! Apperance is only superficial and the real beauty is what you are like on the inside. So many people are hung up on beauty through adverts, tv progs etc ! If we all followed the media`s idea of what is hip and cool the race would die out ! Hope you are having fun on here and that you get to meet people who are not blinded by the superficial !
Having said all of that, you are not going to have any trouble, great prof 
Casanova
Hi Guys,
In reading the above comments I just had to write my own. For years I have been very self-concious of my appearance, but I have to say in recently attending my first meet and great, my confidence levels have really taken a boost.
I have always believed that the perfection in people lies in their imperfections. That's what makes people so interesting. And in the past 36 years of exsistance, I have yet to meet a perfect person....and somehow, I don't think they exsist...lol
Warming the Bed
:doggy:well said princess123
Hi, I couldn't help but reply to your post as it's very honest and very brave. As someone with my own scarring I really feel for you and that you felt compelled enough to post it.
It matters not a jot what has happened to you, people who judge are not fit to be judges, life has so many unexpected surprises for us and we deal with them as best we can; and you shouldn't feel you have to worry about what has happened to you or a marking that has been left, just be yourself and enjoy life, especailly here where we're all lovers or wannabe lovers. Lol!
I guess you can read from the post replies that no-one is perfect and your beauty is more than skin deep. :-)
Say hi if you see me in the rooms.
Hi, I'm new to the scene and very very nervous and very hung up on my looks and body at the moment for different reasons. My hubby tries to make me feel better about myself but right now it's not working. It doesn't help when he goes through the gallery and is keen to contact the pert, well toned young ladies!!!
Hi Boo, yeah nobody's perfect, you look great in your pictures I might add, those scars look OK to me, they must not bother you that much as you have a nice gallery up here and are bringing this to our attention, at least I hope they don't bother you, if you're just wondering what everybody else thinks, it's going to be different for everybody but I'd say most people wouldn't give a toss, yes some people hate tattoos, some people hate noticeable imperfections like birthmarks etc....some people are also into them, some people cut themselves up and tattoo themselves from head to toe, they are still attractive to a large number of people...the beauty people are really attracted to though always comes from within, so at the end of the day it doesn't matter what you look like at all, feeling good about yourself is always a good thing, I could feel acceptable one day and pig ugly the next although I probably look the same, If I feel like I look like shit though I wont be too jolly and won't have any inward beauty to share with anybody.
Boo after having met you, I can honestly say you are a truly beautiful woman..
You are witty, intelligent, warm and above all else true to yourself both on and off swing. Oh and a figure to die for madam!
Each and everyone of us has imperfections, though why we choose to see them that way is one of life's mysteries..
Pefection is never truly beautiful Boo IMO anyway, it is our imperfections that make us all unique and appealing to others.
ps..The old man ain't half bad either;)
I for one have never worn shorts as i always had this thing in my head that my knees were knobbly. Now i know for a fact that there knobbly,the difference is though i've excepted my knobble knees and see my knobble disposition as bottoms for a sex machine. As well as that the weather is crap so no need for shorts. What kind of man is gonna wear shorts anyway.
Warming the Bed
if people looking to go to gym but no motivation to go..
Would swinging not burn up alot of calories....
In relation to scars. We all have our own scars.. They mwke us unique
sean
