At last found a genuine person for a a year on here finally think we have found a genuine male for a 3 time I did this was with someone we knew,this is different and I need wants to cum in me,he has no stds etc,my partner is happy with that but what do others think?.He also would prefer that both my partner and he one of them in my mouth other in my pussy,that i have never had and feel abit pushed into person also wants to know my bust size and what I use on my than that he is fit,nice body and really want to let him join do others think,should I or wait again for someone please before Tuesday thanks Kerry Ann
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First stranger 3sum need advice please.
KerryAnn you sound as if you are not 100% sure about this stranger, I would advise go with your gut feeling and if you feel pushed into anything just back off and take more time until you are sure about the stanger. as for a stranger cuming in you again its up to you but i would prefer condoms for all penetrative sex, after all who will admit to having an STI. anyway goodluck and if you go for it have great fun.
I can only echo what cutie says (and it's the male half writing here); don't do anything you feel pressured into, and your partner should back you up on that. You need to be the one in complete control of the situation. As for the condom thing; it's a no-brainer girl!
We've been fortunate to have met some really genuine guys who are not pushy at all, and who understand that it's the women who control the action.
Have fun and I hope you find what you're looking for.
We've been fortunate to have met some really genuine guys who are not pushy at all, and who understand that it's the women who control the action.
Have fun and I hope you find what you're looking for.
Sex God
Id certainly stick with the condoms, kerry , unless the guy can provide you with a report from a test that was taking 2 mins before anyone cums ,its your body and are u sure u want to go on somones word, somone u dont know very well??
We spoke to guy today,he says only way he will do me as he put it,is to let him cum in woman he was with let him,and says he has no disceases but no partner and me have decided to give this guy a miss,as he also wants me to let him do something else iam not keen on,cum over my says anyone on here is only on it,looking a good raw S***,his words and at my age fory two,iam getting deaperate for another cock,most are at my another seemly genuine person turns out to be a moron,think i better keep looking thanks all Kerry
Hi Kerry so pleased you have dropped this utter wanker, so women on here aged 42 and over are just desperate.. another pathetic guy exposes his true self.
Listen Kerry your body is yours, to do as you please, and sexualy how and what you feel comfortable with.
Don't let any obnoxious, imature over grown schoolboy make you feel abd about yourself..
Keep looking for a decent guy, one who will respect both you and your partners needs..Goodluck..
Kerry.....I concurr with Addies on this...you have done exactly the right thing. We have a simple rule for swinging - no means no. No matter what the circumstances you have to have respect for someones right to self-determination - if someone can't show you that basic level of respect put ur toe up their arse and get rid of them. A guy like that isn't gonna be interested in whether or not you are getting what you want out of the situation, he is 110% focused on his own pleasure...which means he's probably a crap shag anyway, so you will be missing exactly nothing. I have to say that you should count yourself fortunate that this happened before you met this individual...some folks can get quite aggressive if they are balked at a meet, and a personal confronation can make any subsequent meets with other people either uncomfortable or totally unbearable - take our word on that one, Jax was almost put off swinging by anencounter with a drunken couple when the husband tried to intimidate me physically coz things weren't going the way he wanted (he'd got 2 hopes of doing that - Bob Hope and no hope, and Bob Hope is dead).
Stick to your guns hun, don't take any shit, and don't compromise urself....there are PLENTY of honest, compliant, attractive single males here on the site if that's what you are looking for. I hope you have better luck with your search than you seem to have done so far.
Andy
All we are looking as a couple,is some decent clean I have said on our advert,last time we did this was with a friend,and it took me over 2 months of meeting himbefore I let him enter me,and he understood totally the partner and me just want a little bit more,than normal sex I have a higher sex drive than him.I will admit I let our friend cum in me once,but my partner was present and all three of us wanted it to happen,but just once sure some others on here,have did the guy seemed so genuine,he saw my pics,met us face to face,then day before meet he started to dictate his terms,what he wanted to do not us or does seem a big problem,i wonder how any of the rest of you cope with you are right we will continue looking for a genuine person Kerry Ann
hi again
jest read that u dropped the guy, good decision, actually right decision.
my rule when meetin is that the fem is the most important person in the situation and what se decides is final no exception.
so in the future if the guy is genuine he will accept what you decide, rem that.
u set the rules and let us guys go along with it or piss off.
alex
jesus what a w****r!! No wonder its difficult for a single bloke to meet a genuine woman here with blokes like him setting a bad example.
anyway well done on not being pushed into this and trusting youre gut the guys are right,its suppose to be mutual pleasure.....after all isnt the best part knowing and seeing how much shes enjoying it.
Big problem for us now who is genuine,and once all three of us are naked who to say I could be forced to do more than I partner is worried by this as guy got abusive when we said no to his terms.I maybe forty two but my body is mine,all I want is some light stuff at first before leading to more in any male or couple or on here and genuine,please contact us and see if we can arrange wonder it is so hard to get anywhere on here,and shame those REALLY genuine people get a bad name by those not so in the would love a single male or couple to go dogging with us,no strings just fun same for a three some,meet us and lets see what happens take care everyone Kerry
hey kerry, andy here, i'm just new to this but, from what i'm reading, your dead right to blank this guy, and hold out for something better, someone who is going to treat you like the lady that you are. i would love to meet up with you guys for some fun, but i do live down in dublin, so might be a bit difficult, but for now, keep the head up, you'll mister, or mr and mrs right.
Sex God
Kerry,
I Have read all you have posted, and I can only say this, 2 rules of any swing party I have been to and I think uits common sense that they are two strict rules in any kind of meet.
1. Always use condoms.
2. No means no.
In no way should you ever go along with something you are unsure about, at the end of the day if there are repercussionsyou are the one that has to live with them, be they medical/physical ones or worse mental ones.
You know your partner better than anyone, and he knows you, and at the end of the day onbly go through with something that you both have a common ground on.
Best of luck in the future.
I Have read all you have posted, and I can only say this, 2 rules of any swing party I have been to and I think uits common sense that they are two strict rules in any kind of meet.
1. Always use condoms.
2. No means no.
In no way should you ever go along with something you are unsure about, at the end of the day if there are repercussionsyou are the one that has to live with them, be they medical/physical ones or worse mental ones.
You know your partner better than anyone, and he knows you, and at the end of the day onbly go through with something that you both have a common ground on.
Best of luck in the future.
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At last found a genuine person for a a year on here finally think we have found a genuine male for a 3 time I did this was with someone we knew,this is different and I need wants to cum in me,he has no stds etc,my partner is happy with that but what do others think?.He also would prefer that both my partner and he one of them in my mouth other in my pussy,that i have never had and feel abit pushed into person also wants to know my bust size and what I use on my than that he is fit,nice body and really want to let him join do others think,should I or wait again for someone please before Tuesday thanks Kerry Ann
Kerry,
Gut feeling does not come into play. Seriously, use precaution. it's 2009! we live a premsicuous society, for your on sake and for the sake of others as swingers, protection is a requirement.
Just my thoughts.
Padds
I have been around for a while on this and other sites and have met some great people and some not so great. Never do anything you not 110% comfortable with, and always think of your health first.
I have been to many meets where i have left without even having an orgasm, happy in the knowledge the lady had a great time and she was happy. I have met some great couples who i have met multiple times and others where it was a disaster as one of the parties involved wasn't really into sharing.
I have been assulted and robbed more than once,had women wanting to leave their partners and go all bunny boiler on me, so you really never know what your getting into to be honest, but i try to spend as much time as i can getting to know people before it ever gets physical, to make sure that connection is there before i get naked with anyone.
You need to approach it in a mature manner with a clear head and a clear understanding of what your looking for and what you hope to get out of the meeting.
Never do anything u are even slightly unsure about and make sure you can make it stop at any stage if your not 100%.
Stay safe and enjoy it
Sean xx
