Bad Looking

9 Jan 2011

Hi IM new. I actually consider myself bad looking but a real nice guy. Im interested in and respect all types of sexuality but Im a straight male. Are there any swingers on site willing to take on someone like me or do you have to be the perfect 10 on here.

10 Jan 2011

The Perfect 10 - is a fallacy!
What one person scores as a 10 is not UNIVERSALLY a 10 to everyone else.
It comes down to personal taste - and common-sense!
We are all different in everything - Looks, Personality, Tastes - Hey! Ho! for that too - It would be a bl**dy boring world if we were all clones and identi-kits of each other :giggle:
I hope you enjoy your time around the site - whatever you look like biggrin

Marie
Cork Hobbits-R-Us :giggle:

13 Jan 2011

Ah beauty and brains Marie - a lethal combination. Theres a vacant job as Taoiseach coming up. you could run this country as well as you do get togethers in Wexford Im quite convinced. Actually to tell the truth I havent had any fun with a female for about 15 years Im 50 now - a life sentence in some stillcouldnt talk to anyone about it. Sexual frustration over that period will take a person down. I remember she was drunk but said "You should be usin that thing a lot more" I cuddled her for about 2 hours not wanting her to go. my fantasy now is to make love to all the women of the world and maybe one from this site - just joking. All this site is a stage Marie and we are the players there upon.

21 Jan 2011

hi geago it is not all about looks i am not a fussy fem as my profile says if you dont like what you see just say so and i be on my way home and no hard feelings xxxxx

21 Jan 2011

Suzie hun you have great taste...you did meet us lol but to the op, it takes all kinds to swing so just jump right in

21 Jan 2011

raven i know we have meet and had geart times but i see his problem it is hard when you think no one likes or loves you xxxx

23 Jan 2011

Well Im gobsmacked three popular and good - looking women took time to read me. I might never meet ye but id like to give each of you a big big virtual hug over the internet and hold on to that hug for a time. S4 brings sexual liberisation to tis country but there is still a lot of sexual repression out there and it can wreck your head. I think a lot of women on here are not looking for sex but maybe other things like hard to get love and respect, adventure, assurance about their looks etc.. But then who am i to know these things.

23 Jan 2011

Quote by user=Geago
I think a lot of women on here are not looking for sex but maybe other things like hard to get love and respect, adventure, assurance about their looks etc.. But then who am i to know these things.

I think you could be right there

28 Jan 2011

Personally I think if you consider/view/believe yourself to be bad looking then that's the impression you give off. it's all about confidence and being happy with and in yourself. I don't think you should be looking for someone to "take you on", you're not a burden! You should be looking for someone to enjoy fun times with you finds you and your personality/qualities attractive.... As for the perfect 10, there's no such thing!EVERYONE has their flaws and things they don't like about themselves, why waste time focusing on them though - focus on what you do like, everyone has assets to! :smoke:

29 Jan 2011

Quote by likestobite
Personally I think if you consider/view/believe yourself to be bad looking then that's the impression you give off. it's all about confidence and being happy with and in yourself.
I don't think you should be looking for someone to "take you on", you're not a burden! You should be looking for someone to enjoy fun times with you finds you and your personality/qualities attractive....
As for the perfect 10, there's no such thing!EVERYONE has their flaws and things they don't like about themselves, why waste time focusing on them though - focus on what you do like, everyone has assets to!
:smoke:

Couldnt have said it better Myself BabyBites. Its all about perception of yourself. If You give of a negative air, people may treat you negatively, the way I see it is we're all great 'roides' in our own mind, and then its just a matter the ones that agree with that opinion, click with you.
Enjoy the site Gaego, theres someone for everyone here, you come across as a intelligent Guy, keep the shiny side out,and let your wit and intelligence do the talking, believe me there's a lot more to the swinging lifestyle than 'perceived' perfect 10's etc.
Brains and decency count as well.

20 Feb 2011

Much better to find a sexy average looking woman than a drop dead gorgeous woman with the personality of a dead fish.. Looks aren't indeed everything... but they do help innocent

It is so hard to judge someone from a photo alone though as we have to on here sometimes.. but then an open mind if arranging a meet helps...

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