Advice needed!!

Quote by user=maryadams
My husband and I are considering participating in swingers parties. Having never been to one there are obviously lots of things I'm unsure about, but one thing above all else. The thing is I have a serious nut allergy. I'm used to looking at the back of packets and enquiring in restaurants, but have no idea how I'd approach the issue at a swingers party. Not only do I have the embarrassment of vetting the hosts snacks, but there is the further problem of traces of nut being passed via kissing and oral sex, both which I'd most like to participate in. To many this is a funny problem, but to me it can be a matter of life or death. Does anyone familiar with swingers parties have any good advice.

Quote by user=maryadams
My husband and I are considering participating in swingers parties. Having never been to one there are obviously lots of things I'm unsure about, but one thing above all else. The thing is I have a serious nut allergy. I'm used to looking at the back of packets and enquiring in restaurants, but have no idea how I'd approach the issue at a swingers party. Not only do I have the embarrassment of vetting the hosts snacks, but there is the further problem of traces of nut being passed via kissing and oral sex, both which I'd most like to participate in. To many this is a funny problem, but to me it can be a matter of life or death. Does anyone familiar with swingers parties have any good advice.