OK, ok, I know I only been on here 24 hours but what the hell am I supposed to do to get moving twds getting some sort of action?! 20eu this place costs!
So, any tips, people?
But maybe this is what it's like to live in Alaska: hundreds of dudes and hardly any girls and every girl is chased left right n centre by a bunch of pervs! Honest, girls, I'm a perv, yes, that's why I'm here: I already have sex but I still want more! Ah, anyway...
24 hours??? and you're whinging already????
You're confusing the sign on the door with the one on your local brothel!!!!!
You will be waiting a feck of a long time with that attitude!!!!
marieandu is right stop whinning dont be pushy you put people off you have no pic step up with truth see how it is in 3mts
I'm on the site 2 years almost and I have gotten nowhere either.I have been patient but it's a closed community and single straight males are wasting there time and money here.
I couldn't disagree more. This site is great. It's all about making a 'connection' not just posting some pics and hoping for the best. Get involved - make friends - have fun. I'm ostensibly single but met loads of people on here and had a fabulous time.
You're right, point taken. I'll stop whining. It's in my nature to, however, so I'll have to take anti-human nature pills or something. Thinking philosophically about it all, some 24 hours later, I guess the online swinging community is a place that a man has to patient in and a place to be polite, kind, and not a whining git! Thanks for your replies.
RE: the photos, yeah, working on it. Chau!
How do I reply to this post withouth sounding like a git?...ah feck It I wont bother,
24 hours...I will have to just run that by myself again 24 hours???...and your complaining? I am not sure what drivel on the adult channell you were watching that made yo uthink you'll get 'an easy lay' on a swingers site, that is so not what its about. Swinging is a lot more than quick thrills. I see another poster going on about it being a closed commuinity, well maybe if you have a closed mind. I was here a long time before I had any physical contact with someone, I had to bide my time, get to see whats happening in the chat rooms, gradually build up some trust and rapport with people. I watched others barge in with bravado and Attitude, a disrespectful attitude even and they all fell by the wayside, if you are serious abouyt enjoying all that swinging has to offer, you really need to be prepared for a slow burn more so than instant fire, at the end of the day the smouldering fire last far longer than the flash in the pan.
( God I went all Eric Cantona there!!..seagull and a trawler anyone?)
its so easy to dismiss this site or the numerous other sites for swinging if its a thing you come on here with that frame of mind. In fairness, I am sure you've had yer best nights out just going to enjoy yerself and then getting to hook up with a nice girl for some fun after more so than going on a mission to get your end away only to go to bed with your cock in your hand.
Lads Give it a chance. I too was a bit disenchanted but after suffering the unanswered emails and the blank looks at the odd witty remark I tossed carelessly into the chat room it eventually paid off and I've never enjoyed myself more.
Keep the Faith.
T
24 hours???? haha wat do u expect from women. iv been on this site a long time now and i treat all women with respect some guys forget women are people and not just someone u can have 5 mins of fun with. its also bullshit if you think a single guy gets nower here im single and iv had some good experiences from couples and single ladies so if u dont change ur attitude u will definately get nower, better stop ranting or i wont stop.... idiot
Titan and other have said it all ...the key is patience, respect and being friendly.
you have to chat before you can really expect to meet meet.
but remember PATIENCE