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Forum Virgin
ya thats a very good idea wen do we start
Sexlightened
Us, us, us, we would like to apply, seems only fair since singles apply for everything we do even though it says "couples only" seems only fair!
Warming the Bed
just a point for all you poor people who are getting no where on this site..... maybe try some photos then ppl might take u serious
Sex God
Well said ikeandtina,
Make your profile stand out, and understand that your going to need to do some ground work with people to get a meet. Swingers, the real ones, seldom just meet at the drop of a hat.
hi guys all points taken having said that when i joined this i thought at least people you send a message to would acknowledge the message even if the answer was negative i have no equipment to put photo s on this site and as i am a married man i dont think i want to even though my wife has no interest in sex anymore . even to meet some people of the opposite sex for a cup of coffee to see if we could go further would be a start or at least just to see if there was a bit of interest there. most people on this site do not have photos and i respect that most people also seem like me to be average looking and average build and as its a chat site too a reply to someones message could be the start of something hot anyway guys and girls who dont seem to get any replies keep sending a message and we will see how it goes everyone have a nice day take care
Not sure if the link I have posted above will work - but anyway, this whinge of the single males who don't get replies to their messages is as old as Myself - and the reasons don't change much either.
BullAndBoo started a great thread about this subject - and that's the one I've tried to link here - but I also bumped the post from the B1N back to the top of the 'Anything Goes' Forum so you can check out the great responses given by the members around here.
The issue of pics is a dodgy one, we all agree, because of the need for discretion - but there's no good reason for having zero pics. You can have pics set to private, so they are only viewable when you send a personal invite to your private gallery.
BullAndBoo started a great thread about this subject - and that's the one I've tried to link here - but I also bumped the post from the B1N back to the top of the 'Anything Goes' Forum so you can check out the great responses given by the members around here.
The issue of pics is a dodgy one, we all agree, because of the need for discretion - but there's no good reason for having zero pics. You can have pics set to private, so they are only viewable when you send a personal invite to your private gallery.
ok again thanks for the response as for whinging i am sorry it comes across as that but my point is i send a message and the person you send it to reads it and ignores it . its the same as you saying hello to someone in the street and the person not saying hello back . it just strikes me as bad manners. obviously a photo helps but it doesnt mean that you will like that person if you meet them they might be like a sister in law of mine stunning to look at but the b.o puts you right i am whinging again point taken but also respect those people who wish to stay off camera
great idea bossy bootswell just to give you all some encouragement I have met a few lovely people off this site and I only have a cpl of pics and they are set to private. That said, it takes along time hanging around the chatroom to get people to take you seriously and if you do happen to come to an arrangement with someone make sure you stick to it and turn up, otherwise all that hard work is down the tubes! I do think though, that having a good long description in your profile and plenty of good pics rather than one or two will get you more results ( I have some experience in internet marketing and lets face it, it's all about selling yourself!) if you look at my profile you will see that I havent yet taken my own advice but I plan on doing something about that shortly, so we'll see what happens!
just like hunkydory i too have met some wonderful sexy ppl on this site. There is no doubt that its difficult for single guys but u do tend to find a few gems every now and then which is worth it. I know where your coming from about no replys bossyboots but i suppose u have to understand that cpls and single fems get lots and lots of mails from single guys so they cant be spending their time reading them all and replying to them all. Try sending something that stands out or just get griendly with ppl in chat. As for the pics there is so many non genuine ppl out their so i personally think pics or cam is essential. set them to private then noone has to know unless u want them to.
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just a point for all you poor people who are getting no where on this site..... maybe try some photos then ppl might take u serious
I don't think photos make any difference at all Ike&tina. I have a shed load of photos up, still doesn't interest anyone though. I think most of what happens in the comunity is controled by men in couples and if single guys have nothing to share then they just can't come to the party. I could be wrong but thats how it seems.
I don't think photos make any difference at all Ike&tina. I have a shed load of photos up, still doesn't interest anyone though.
A shed load??? Where? They are not on your profile, either public or private!!!
Speaking as someone who ONLY plays with single males - Yes, there is a 'market' for them - but this site is not the meat counter and some guys need to learn that PDQ or spend a long time getting nowhere fast! Their approach is clumsy, and rude usually, often derogatory and insulting and even downright abusive at times. When they act like adult humans then they will get treated as adult humans - until then - they can herd themselves into a corner and wank away to their heart's content!!!
Without the women, who are sick of being seen as 'any hole is a good hole'.
As to the original point of the thread - without the couples - meet-and-greets will never get off the ground, as there are never enough single females able to get to meets and they certainly wouldn't be going alone, into the 'Lion's Den of a hoard of Horny Guys!!!! W I S E U P !!!
hi people i have been away a couple of days,and thanks for the interest. it doesn t look as anything will get off the ground but i wont give up yet . unfortunately these sites do attract more single males than single women,thats just the way it is,also when i joined, i thought it was a site for people who were up for nsa fun,not for people who are looking for a long term commitment. another thing about this site is they took my affiliation fee from my bank account twice and i am still waiting for a reimbursement. anyway from a genuine male who is just after some fun friendship and nothing else,take care and to the last thread take it easy, life is for enjoyment and living,a good mate of mine has just been told two months and then out of here,so ease up and love life, its too short take care people
Sexlightened
Glad you liked it you 2 xxx
