As a long time member of S4I I understand that most single guys posting on the 'Let's Meet Up' forum don't appreciate what most people expect before they arrange to meet someone.
As a guy of 52 (I won't lie in order to get thrown up within people's search parameters) I now find it more difficult to receive any interest from other members. Of course the fact I'm also married doesn't help.
However I won't meet anyone under false pretenses. I have met with many nice people from this and other sites but since I turned 50 these meets have declined somewhat.
Was hoping that I might receive contact from couples that would appreciate a friendly, respectful genuine guy who still has some life in him yet. I'm said to look much younger (honest)and still in pretty good shape physically and happy to follow your lead / pace.
I'm from the border area around South Down.
I know it smacks of desperation to post on this forum but i'm not attracting any interest from my profile and I would love to continue to meet up with new friends.
Willing to travel.
Thanks to all those who contacted and met with me in the past.
Cheers
Danny
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Danny, there are plenty of members on here within your age bracket. I personally have never seen you interact on the site, and with the amount of abusers and messers that these sites attract, its very important to stand out from the madding crowd so to speak. My advise to you is get involved more, join in the forum discussions etc, more so if you find chat not to your likeing...in forums you can post at your own pace. Might I also make the suggestion if your going to post public pic's have them as recent as possible, ppl will look at date marks and think..wow 7 years old..wonder if he still looks same now..as I have just done..no offence meant btw...and as to the age thing..I admire you dont lie just to get in with a certain age group, honesty is always the best policy. I think you just need to get involved more...if you dont switch on the light...no one is going to see that your here, so to speak...good luck with the hunt..sherri...
Thanks Sherri for taking the time and interest to respond. I can't argue with sound advice. I'm not much good on the chatrooms but will take your advice and post regularly on the forums. I'll update my photos and hopefully that will help.
I had some comments on my profile from a previous meet but the lady since left the site and removed her profile resulting in her comments being removed also.
Hopefully someone will take pity on me lol
Cheers
Danny
Don't seek "pity" in here.....It won't get you anywhere....
Your looking at a lot of Swingers in here,with at least some experience..And,,You won't find a lot that will meet up with someone,just out of "pity".
There are some fantastic people in here,,You just have to wade through the masses to find them. Or,who knows,you might be lucky and find them quite quickly..
Thanks to those who took the time to respond.
MrCorkHot - I wasn't seriously looking for someone's pity - would be a long time waiting if that were the case. Was just joking - hense the lol comment. Just my dry sence of wit I'm afraid. I didn't mean for anyone to take the comment literaly.
Thanks for your comments thought - I know you were just trying to be constructive.
Hotminx - Thanks for your comments and support. Glad to see your still having fun. Your one great lady.
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corkhot DandM2 you might also look into this thread, as a jumping off point so to speak :) ( or maybe a jumping on point ;) )
http://www.swing4ireland.com/dublinf-swinger-party-5208.html
