Just wanted to say how frustrating it is , to pay( a modest sum anyway ) to be able to send letters etc ..only to find that NOBODY I wrote to , out of NINE people , has even opened my letters .ok ladies , or you don't really exist or you're too tight to fork out the small fee required to " get what you want " ?!!..anybody else found this problem ? what a p.. off !
bt
That's the way it is most of the time for a lot of us, I wouldn't get too bothered by it, just have a look at the amount of men on this site compared to the amount of women or couples, and a lot them aren't looking to talk to single men at all, they are going to get so many mails a day that they'll never reply to a lot of them, especially if they aren't logged in regularly... and then there's a lot of fake and unused pages thrown in there. (They'll never reply or read your message).
All in all some people will reply, but no, not even half of what you send gets a reply, but sure it keeps us busy doesn't it....and you'll also be a wizz at typing after a while.
best thing to do is to get a rapport going with somw ladies in the chat rooms, then you can send off a latter to them after a while. it will save on the typing and one more thing - if sending to a female don't just cut and paste the one lettter and send to many - make it personal.
Thanks guys ! anyway I was writing to people who could be looking for someone like me , carefully selected too ..
haven't been able to fathom out the chat room yet when I go on the page , all the windows seem blank ..
Guys!!!!
Have you been in the chatrooms? "Rome was not built in a day!"
Take time too chat with people, loads of great, genuine peeps on the site.
Padds
As suggested from Padds and Alane, go back to check out the chatrooms, but to be honest it's often hard to get a reply from people there too as it moves pretty fast at times, women are greatly outnumbered by men, sometimes people may also be engaged in whispers with others, your message could get swallowed up quick enough and wont be seen, if the windows are blank it's because you haven't selected a cam to watch, click a name in the live cam box on the right and select the camera you want to see them in, if there's no names there then nobody in the room has their camera turned on, if you're having hassle ask everybody in the room, somebdies bound to help if they can...I'd say log in regularly and do whatever you're most comfortable with...you will get replies at some stage.