i agree totaly with you stephen i gave up on the site last year because it seemed impossible to meet any ladies in person loads of mails and texts but no meetings.i have rejoined the site but not sure of any changes since i was last on .the question stephen asks is correct are there any ladies out there wanting less texts and more action
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Ok Lads, a Few things: is a swingers site, mainly populated by couples seeking other cpls bi women and the odd lucky guy.
2. With the nature of many things like this the men outnumber the women by a huge amount, so the thing is the women have plenty of us lads to pick and choose from.
3.I have had women tell me they get as many as 30 emails a day, and they sometimes have to wade through loads of un-imaginative 'Hey want a quick fuck some time' emails from be honest you should try and distingusih yerself from the others with you mannerism and profile.
4. I am on this site a year and have not met a single women through emails, but I have met a few females and a couple through talking in chat first and then developing a rapport with them.
NSA does not mean 'Pump and dump' Just because any sane woman on a site like this wants to be assureed of her safety in your company and take her time getting to chat shouldnt really be so surprising, or reason to say the women 'are not real' is a social activity even though some cpl's may just want a one off meet, a lot like to develop longer term friendships on the site and find comfort in a few meets with the same individuals.
On closing, Lads I can appreciate its frustrating but you really need to consider the many factors involved when a couple or more so a single woman decides to meet with a guy from the site.
very good mail makemyday what you say about ladies looking out for their safety and such like is very important but if a lady posts a profile which clearly states her wishes as being nsa fun or such like then i feel that when guys mail her on this understanding the least one deserves is a reply i have to say there are people on this site with no intention of meeting anyone only having a bit of craic reading mails sent from well meaning guys
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very good mail makemyday what you say about ladies looking out for their safety and such like is very important but if a lady posts a profile which clearly states her wishes as being nsa fun or such like then i feel that when guys mail her on this understanding the least one deserves is a reply i have to say there are people on this site with no intention of meeting anyone only having a bit of craic reading mails sent from well meaning guys
Well Rayn,
I was kinda hopeful when I read start of the message then you threw it all out the window when you said that because they want nsa everything else is irelevant? As for the fact they dont mail you back regardless of a yes or a no well I rthink thats theyre decision and a lot of women choose not to as interacting in that way they may feel they are engaging you and may not wish to do so. I too used to get the hump when a woman wouldnt reply to the big long witty email which I went to the effort of composing, in the hope of getting into her the woman's choice to email back or not and if they don't I'm afraid its tough luck.
I can vouch there are loads of genuine women on this site But as I said this is a swinging site, not a quick hook up site, there are plenty of those on the net if thats all your looking for.
Well,,2 things here lads.....First of all,,From what Rayn says,,,if some women are only here for the craic,,they should say that on their profile,and not be leading people on...
Secondly,As MakeMy says,Some women don't/won't reply to mails,,But,,If this is the case,,they shouldn't ask people to mail them,,Or,,once again,Put it on their profile that they will not reply to mails,as they themselves will mail whom they are interested in! How hard is that to do?
I know,I know,,it's just dreaming,,But,,If women were to do this,then at least the guys/couples would then have a way better idea of what these women are looking for,and save themselves a lot of bother of mailing the single girls in the first place!
Just my 5 euro worth...
Is it not the case that Ryan is assuming that because women who advertise for NSA and don't reply to mails, are only here for the craic..?
That seems to be the old war cry, by every guy who complains he doesn't get replys..
NSA= No Strings Attcahed fun, and in most cases does not mean, hello I am up for fecking all in sundry, and because I advertise I should have to reply to everyone who mails me.
Would a woman go into into a singles bar and accept a drink from every guy who offers, would a guy feel he has to buy every woman a drink if she shows an interest in him?
Swing is not, for most of the members a sex site, NSA is a term used to imply that a sexual encounter can be enjoyed and shared without any future contact, I think it is time a lot of guys dropped the notion it is a knocking shop!!! and stop bloody whinging!!
hi all just to clarify my previous post i am fully aware of what a swing site is and is not and see myself as a person with the utmost respect for women,my bone of contention is that if people invite correspondence under their profile they should be mannerly enough to reply or clarify that they only want a bit of craic and not to be meeting people i rest my case on this thread
