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i agree a lot of wasters on this site
Warming the Bed
hey there must agree with you,sent loads of messages to different they said no pic no i uploaded a pic might not be the best one in the world,but at least they can see im never get back for a enough the only couple i did meet was a german couple on this site and they were my two cents
Hi There
Yet again here we are talking about wasters etc etc but if you put the effort into forums and even chatrooms getting to know people before assumig everyone are wasters boy it would be a lot different!! but yet it seems the comments are from guys as always as most think hey we are just looking to get our legs over someone.....takes more than than that !!!!!
All sites are the same run over by guys so pay attention and take time to know people and maybe you may be lucky !!!!
Sex God
This is Ireland, you seem to forget we have a culture of discretion and waryness due to years of upbringing by the old RC Church, and yes I know ireland is a far more sexually liberated country than it was 10 years ago people still have theyre deep seeded values and natural waryness of letting people into theyre inner circle, trust intimacy etc, so Saying this site is full of wasters and wannabe's is not entirely fair, people are maybe not as liberated in this country as to invite a total stranger to there home for 3 days of unbridaled passion etc, But in My experience we do the swinging thing in Ireland fairly well, its just a matter that we keep it to ourselves a bit more, for both privacy and secuirity reason's.
As Sexycouple said try being a bit more forthright and amicable on chat rooms and forums etc for a start and you might be pleasantly surprised, I know I went through the maudling 'Send loads a mails for nothing' phase but after I ventured into chat and got talking to people after a while I found that people are more likely especially in the case of couples...to invite you or accept you as someone they may be interested in getting up to some fun with.
Just my few cent's.
Warming the Bed
hi there read your views and i agree,but it would be nice to get a reply sayin thanks for the message,we will keep you in couples dont like goin into the chat rooms and been whispered to,i know what you are sayin is go into a chat room and get to know a couple its easier said than not to computer literate yet still finding my feet,but when it comes to a conversion face to face no problem,ill talk the legs of a table.i know males are on this site tryin to get there leg over,well it is a swingin other thing im just rambling about is these meet and greets people go to them meeting total strangers and getting there leg over.i reckon theres not much chatting goin on .dont get me wrong but i thought that was whatwas swingin all another two cents worth excuse the spelling
Sex God
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hi there read your views and i agree,but it would be nice to get a reply sayin thanks for the message,we will keep you in couples dont like goin into the chat rooms and been whispered to,i know what you are sayin is go into a chat room and get to know a couple its easier said than not to computer literate yet still finding my feet,but when it comes to a conversion face to face no problem,ill talk the legs of a table.i know males are on this site tryin to get there leg over,well it is a swingin other thing im just rambling about is these meet and greets people go to them meeting total strangers and getting there leg over.i reckon theres not much chatting goin on .dont get me wrong but i thought that was whatwas swingin all another two cents worth excuse the spelling
Fair comment sparky,
just on the meet and greets I have been to one so far and believe it or not they are not always the mass orgy some percieve them to be, There was plenty of chat and good fun to be had at the last one, and from what i could ascertain most of the leg throwing over was going on afterwards in the rooms with people who to some degree or other had been in touch on a conversational level at least prior to the meet, though I may be proved wrong.
in regards to people not reply to messages or emails I posted about the same thing a few weeks back and got a few curt replies but in hindsight ones that make a bit of sense, the amount of email's that cpls and single women have to face everytime they open theyre inbox can be vast and trying to get through them all with a reply of 'no thanks' etc would be un thinkable. also a point made to me at the time is that most rather to just ignore and not make any acknowledgement so as to avoisd exchanges going any further in the rare case the person that sent the original mail takes it as a come on, though this i could be proved wrong about as well.
i think all you can do is perciveer and use your aforementioned conversational skills whenever you get the chance on here, even to the computer illiterates on here they find a way to do it in the end.
Makemyday0126
I've been a member since only wednesday. What I seem to notice is that ppl join and then seem to forget about it. A vast majority of accounts have not been accessed for over 2 weeks.
I could be wrong in my assesment (as am only new), please correct me if I am. I would like to meet genuine ppl no matter what their preferances.
All complaints from single males oh dear. Whos to say they didnt receive your pic and didnt like what they saw? Just because you think everyone would like to get it on with you doesnt mean its true. Would you prefare a reply saying sorry your too ugly? The problem here is there is around 20 times more males than couples and females, most of the couples want a woman or couple with a female so they can get the old lesbian fantasy action happening lol. So why get frustrated or offended by it? This site is'nt really designed for single males in mind in my opinion but at least you dont have to pay (yet) to find out the truth about these kinda things, not saying it couldnt happen but the odds are againest you no matter how much of a stud you reckon you are. 
