hi all
it was nice to see so many members on this site, but it seems most are only words and not up for action. some dont even have the manners to reply to a message. we would like to meet some real people who are on this site for what it is. others should just text with their phones, are we the only ones feeling this way ?
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do any one on this want real action or do yee only want ...
Well Dora,Fair dues to you,,Your one of the honest,and fantastic people on this site.
We have met a few from here,just socially..And a few more We knew from an other site.
If everyone was as good as you,,just to return mail(We have sent 100's,and Got about 2 replies),Even to say No thanks,,People would feel a whole lot better about sites like this!
Our hunt is over........
Personal experiences don't show the whole picture - for good or bad.
I spent the last week up to my eyeballs in paperwork and left my inbox alone.
When I sat down to tackle it today - there were 117 new messages and over 40 replies I'd sent out to regular contacts.
Most of the new contacts I simply recorded - I also keep a record of all contacts, Dora. It's amazing how folk expect you to remember them amongst the hundreds we chat and interact with in other ways on the site.
The sorry part of this is - if those correspondents had taken the time to read - and understand - my profile then they'd have saved their time and effort in contacting someone who plainly does not want contact with married/attached people - or those not in Cork! Needless to say they won't be getting replies. That doesn't mean I won't chat with them in the rooms - I chat with anyone who chats back nicely.
All others I do reply to - even those I don't expect to have 'real meets' with - but are sensible enough to recognise that friendship is very important to me - as the first building block of any relationship in my book - be it social or sexual.
Any yes, I do meet real folks from here - socially - AND sexually - it's just a matter of preferences and suitable opportunities for those concerned.
I spent the last week up to my eyeballs in paperwork and left my inbox alone.
When I sat down to tackle it today - there were 117 new messages and over 40 replies I'd sent out to regular contacts.
Most of the new contacts I simply recorded - I also keep a record of all contacts, Dora. It's amazing how folk expect you to remember them amongst the hundreds we chat and interact with in other ways on the site.
The sorry part of this is - if those correspondents had taken the time to read - and understand - my profile then they'd have saved their time and effort in contacting someone who plainly does not want contact with married/attached people - or those not in Cork! Needless to say they won't be getting replies. That doesn't mean I won't chat with them in the rooms - I chat with anyone who chats back nicely.
All others I do reply to - even those I don't expect to have 'real meets' with - but are sensible enough to recognise that friendship is very important to me - as the first building block of any relationship in my book - be it social or sexual.
Any yes, I do meet real folks from here - socially - AND sexually - it's just a matter of preferences and suitable opportunities for those concerned.
Hi Pleasure..
I noticed you have only been on site from posibly the beginning or early November??
Perhaps it is too soon, most swingers like to take their time, getting to know other members ect.
Now that is not to say I always followed that rule, but on the whole I prefered a bit of chat ect..
I have met a lot of people from this site, and have to be honest and say it has all been a fantastic experience, I still chat to many of them, others may not want to keep in touch for their own reasons, which I totaly accept and understand.
In all honesty even if I had never met anyone from Swing, I would still stay on this site, because for me swinging has always been a lifestyle, it is still very socialy unacceptable, so it is wonderful to come on-line and feel a part of a group of people who share a common pleasure..
For a long time I avoided the chatrooms, simply because I am woeful at following convos, but recently I have been going in to chat a lot more, lol..... and guess what??? everyone knows I am woeful about following convos, and hey they take the piss, wind me up but all in good fun, and the craic is great..
I honestly hope that you do stay around a bit longer and find what you are looking for..
Good luck Addies.
I have to say we have met a lot of friends from this site and 2 very close friends whom we have invited into our everyday lives, we have also had a lot of fun swinging with some great couples from this site and the key is simply to get to know these people get along with them and the fun will come. I suggest going into the chatrooms and getting to know people as that is where we have met the most of our meets. Hope your luck changes. xxxx
Sex God
1. this is a swinging site. if anyone can bring me evidence of the wording 'quick meaningless no strings sex inside' Please show me and I'll give you the contents of myt much strained piggy bank.
this is not a quick hook up site!!!! who swing on here are here for the lifestyle, i.e meeting likeminded people that are into this.
if your looking for Brazen husseys with morals that leave a little to the imagination...your going to have to make some effort and get to know them first.
3. being the much malighned single male i didnt hold much faith in thi site at the start as I went through the endless emails with no reply etc, but ya know what getting talking in the chat room does help, people rely on trust a lot in swinging and you sure as hell gonna have to earn it rather than use a 'quick fuck now..very horny' approach.
