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Sexpert
That's right lots of mails to sort through also a lot of people don't bother to read profiles before they mail
i want a woman,,ffs is that too much to ask for
Hi,
I have sent lots of mails and got no replies. Even being patient I think waiting over a month for a reply is pushing it. I think most people dont bother to open their mailbox
And I have to agree, single males are treated like the plague here and are made feel unwelcome by a few here.
Hi
You are incorrect in regards of guys being treated like the plauge. It's down to how much effort that you put into either sending a email or using the chatroom getting to know others also we have said in another post about attending the meet & greets.
There is a lot of genuine people on the site here but remember it is hard for single men to swing but hang in there.
Sexycpl4u
You are incorrect in regards of guys being treated like the plauge. It's down to how much effort that you put into either sending a email or using the chatroom getting to know others also we have said in another post about attending the meet & greets.
There is a lot of genuine people on the site here but remember it is hard for single men to swing but hang in there.
Sexycpl4u
Quote by user=eamon36
HI I agree i think single males here are treated like the plauge. i have sent mails and very little replys an i am real and genuine
ok am getting tired of the poor single male line at this stage , yes its hard for you but thats just something ye will have to deal with ,(I'm not knocking single guys , the majority of the ones I have spoken to are lovely guys .. a few p***ks but that can be said bout cpls and single fems also)
there's so many of ye and so few single fems and ye have to compete with the cpls as well , but ill be honest and say here that if ye put as much effort into your mails or into the chat room as you do in bitching bout been treated like the plague you would stand a better chance ,
how many more of the same threads are going to go up and you will always get the same response and advice ....... get into the chat room , talk to people that way , ye mightn't like the fact that your mail mightn't be read or that its glanced at quickly then deleted but it does happen ,so boys get into chat and put the effort in there because realistically your not gonna hook up with someone just by saying hello , might have worked in gerry mcguire , it wont work here
oh and b4 you say "oh listen to that bitch" ,im a genuine girl here who has met single guys , who has got the mails .. and there's not that many of us here in comparison to the amount of males ,and we cant meet everyone so your gonna have to work at it .
keep trying and put in the effort , enjoy the chat ,and hope ye all find what your looking for
Nicely put Bi,
It is an unfortunate truth that on the site now we do have many many more single guys on the site. Dont get me wrong here, not saying the site doesnt need them, or that they are not wanted.
if you take the time to look at the new members list everyday and see the amounts of single guys/girls and couples are joining s4i u would get a good idea of what u are up against.
If u are a single guy you need to show that you are better than the other single guys, you will be judged in the chatrooms on the way you behave, the way you chat, the comments you come out with.
Ok, we all look at the cams, thats what they are there for, but if u post in the chatrooms comments that to be honest we would all be thinking when looking at a cam you look like a lad, not a man.
Comments of"ur looking good, wow sexy, i wish i could have those, and u make me want to cum" and those i have seen just coz the cam is pointing at a girls chest, fully clothed.
The girls one here, both single and couples, know what they look like, no that u all want to f**k them, but what would they really like?? for you to talk to them, find out about them, not just the sexual stuff.
Most of the couples on the site say that they are not looking for single males, but most dont read the words or the wants in peoples profiles, so u would be sending an email to someone that would not see u as a potential meet option...
Please remember, I am not having a go at any group, as bi said, there are good and bad on this site, or other sites, single or couple.
This is not like being in a night club where if u look good in expensive clothes and look good you will pull with a little help from a little chat and alot of alcahol. In a chat room you have to work alot harder.....
look i think that if u but forward a good arguement to say why a cpl or single girl should pick u that you have as good a chance as any, and yes you can guess how many mails that they get expecily the single ladies recive, so i think take u time dont act the dick and after a while the chances r you will get some answers, but wat do i no
Forum Virgin
I have to agree with the ladies on this one.
But I know that it is hard for guys on the site, I have met with a few on here and had good and bad experiences, but it is all down to how hard you want to try. the ladies on this site are not going to go for the I Want Sex guy, try being more original. has worked for me.
But I know that it is hard for guys on the site, I have met with a few on here and had good and bad experiences, but it is all down to how hard you want to try. the ladies on this site are not going to go for the I Want Sex guy, try being more original. has worked for me.
Forum Virgin
saying that, anyone want to meet up in the north east this Saturday night? lol
