Advice on Temple Bar

31 Oct 2011

Guys I wonder can anyone give us some advice. We are staying on saturday night in Temple Bar area and are more than likely going to take our first foray into my wife playing with another guy. We are both extremely nervous and hoping it will just happen and the moment will take us with it rather than setting anything up that is planned. We are looking for advice about good pubs and clubs that we could go to in Temple Bar...( need to be near the hotel as the further we have to go the more the doubt may creep in wink

) Basically we are a mid 30's married couple looking to pick up any age of reasonably fit guy to do we know not what.....it could be watching her play in the hotel room, it could be more but we need to set up the right circumstances for it to happen. Please someone help us out with some advice. We also dont want to stick out like sore thumbs in some mid 20's nightclub and feel totally out of place. Many thanks in advance

1 Nov 2011

All I am asking for is some advice....dont all rush at once wink

1 Nov 2011

hey guys you may find that for your first time it would be better to sort a single guy with verifilcations on here,, it is very difficult for a cpl who are on their own in a bar or club to pull a single guy that is comfortable with a mmf suitation,, in my experience doing this you have to be very open with the guy from the start, the girl needs to let him know exactly what it is she is looking for and get him chating to her partner ,, that is normally my trump card when pulling a guy ,, it is actually much more exciting than a planned meet i have to say ,, alot of flirting with girl and a guy she fancies is always a great puller ,, also physical contact with him in front of her partner ,,this lets the guy knwo that she is serious about what she asking for , i have also found it is actually easier to pull two guys than one as they up for a laugh and feel they have moral support with each other ,,anyway that is my tupence worth ,, go for it is what i say it is brillant fun and make sure you play safe xxx :swingingchair: lucy

1 Nov 2011

Lucy probably the best piece of advice we have ever read. Just to add, sitting in a corner and waiting for a guy to approach never works, you'll have to make the approach which could be by means of sliding beside a perspective guy at the bar and accidentially rubbing yourself against the guy and staying there for a few seconds too long lol

Legsandheels xxxxxx

Quote by lucylovesit
hey guys
you may find that for your first time it would be better to sort a single guy with verifilcations on here,, it is very difficult for a cpl who are on their own in a bar or club to pull a single guy that is comfortable with a mmf suitation,, in my experience doing this you have to be very open with the guy from the start, the girl needs to let him know exactly what it is she is looking for and get him chating to her partner ,, that is normally my trump card when pulling a guy ,, it is actually much more exciting than a planned meet i have to say ,, alot of flirting with girl and a guy she fancies is always a great puller ,, also physical contact with him in front of her partner ,,this lets the guy knwo that she is serious about what she asking for , i have also found it is actually easier to pull two guys than one as they up for a laugh and feel they have moral support with each other ,,anyway that is my tupence worth ,, go for it is what i say it is brillant fun and make sure you play safe xxx :swingingchair:
lucy

1 Nov 2011

and where exactly should I be sitting/standing while Im waiting for some horny lady to accidentally on purpose rub against me then drag me back to her hotel room??!!!! ..... biggrin

1 Nov 2011

Beside me so that she ends up with the two of us lol

1 Nov 2011

excellent idea Tanda but I think they want a gentle introduction to swinging! never know though, nothing like jumping in with both feet! smile

1 Nov 2011

Lucy thank you sooo much. Great advice and has given us alot of food for thought....

2 Nov 2011

Experienced swinger guy here...often meet newbie couples so understand the apprehension.. try a bar called REMOVED ...lots swingers there including guys.. shame you cant make it friday night, id show you around the right bars etc...if you can make friday let me know...

2 Nov 2011

Please PM hotel or pub names to the OP as posting them on the open forum will see them removed.

6 Nov 2011

A huge thanks to everyone for the advice. We had a great very daring ( for us ) and sexy night with a lovely guy in out hotel last night. We followed the advice and were very upfront with a guy early on in an up market cocktail bar at one end of fleet street. He joined us for a few drinks and some tapas before heading next door to a lovely nightclub. After some flirting and dancing we 'retired' to our room. Wasn't as hardcore as we had hoped as he had a slight case of stagefright. T put him at ease by playing with her dildo whilst we both watched and wanked over her tits. After cumming he came back much stronger and enjoyed watching us fuck as well as getting his cock sucked briefly until he got too excited. He was lovely, hotel was lovely And it was a great intro for us. Long may it continue