) and find it easier to be friends with men.
This brings me to one more thing, Bull is not comfortable with us having sex separately with others. Personally I have this fantasy of him being off somewhere with another lover (male/female, doesn't matter) and making him fuck me when he returns. But fulfilling my fantasies is less important to me than both of us being 100% okay with whatever we do, so unless something happens to change his mind, this will not be an option.
You're likely to see me posting and participating here more than Bull, as I'm the internet addict in the family. He's more of a lurker, will read over my shoulder and tell me his thoughts so I can write them down. Be warned, I tend to write really long emails and posts (exhibit A above).
Can't wait to meet and more!
Boo. Man, that's so annoying. I wrote this lovely intro, tweaking and polishing and checking my spelling (I'm a writer, I'm obsessed with correct spelling), clicked on add and... boom! It was just swallowed.
:fury:
Okay, so let me try again. I'm Boo. Bull and I are South Africans in our mid-thirties who immigrated to Ireland four years ago. I'm afraid we don't have any naughty photos of us to put up here (yet) so in our profile, please meet ordinary everyday us, fully clothed. I'll try to correct that situation asap.
Sexually we're interested in adding one more person to our adventures. We're both bi-curious, and the idea of Bull with another guy really turns me on. We're absolute swing virgins, so it might be a good idea to meet with and talk to more experienced people (if it goes further, fine, if it doesn't, also fine). However, we're open to anyone who tweaks our interest, so do contact us if we look like the kind of people you'd like to get to know.
I'm really keen to learn to accept anal sex. We've tried it before, but I think I'm going to need to train my body. Anyone who has experience here, please contact me, I need advice.
Socially we're really hoping to meet other open-minded people with whom we can just relax and be ourselves. Bull is a bit of an introvert. I'm good with women in one-on-one situations, but add one more and I clam up or do something stupid. I have no idea why I'm like this, it's a bit embarrassing sometimes. I'm much more comfortable with men in groups (having a drink, not a gang bang ) and find it easier to be friends with men.
This brings me to one more thing, Bull is not comfortable with us having sex separately with others. Personally I have this fantasy of him being off somewhere with another lover (male/female, doesn't matter) and making him fuck me when he returns. But fulfilling my fantasies is less important to me than both of us being 100% okay with whatever we do, so unless something happens to change his mind, this will not be an option.
You're likely to see me posting and participating here more than Bull, as I'm the internet addict in the family. He's more of a lurker, will read over my shoulder and tell me his thoughts so I can write them down. Be warned, I tend to write really long emails and posts (exhibit A above).
Can't wait to meet and more!
Boo.
) and find it easier to be friends with men.
This brings me to one more thing, Bull is not comfortable with us having sex separately with others. Personally I have this fantasy of him being off somewhere with another lover (male/female, doesn't matter) and making him fuck me when he returns. But fulfilling my fantasies is less important to me than both of us being 100% okay with whatever we do, so unless something happens to change his mind, this will not be an option.
You're likely to see me posting and participating here more than Bull, as I'm the internet addict in the family. He's more of a lurker, will read over my shoulder and tell me his thoughts so I can write them down. Be warned, I tend to write really long emails and posts (exhibit A above).
Can't wait to meet and more!
Boo. 
hello bnb
great intro onto site..:welcome::welcome:
hope to talk soon in chat room soon :thumbup:
:wave:
Welcome to swing Bullandboo, what a nice forthright introduction, hope you enjoy your time with us and There are loads of nice friendly helpful people here that will be more than willing to talk with you and make your time here enjoyable.