posting this here even though we have been on this site for a while , When we enter a room on chat we always post either hello all or hi all , now while we do not expect everyone to say hello in reply the total lack of any reply most of the time can be very off putting , more so in "newbies" where either singles or couples have their first contact with ppl on here , it might help for ppl to be a bit more friendly , who knows where it might lead ?.
Am sorry to hear that your not getting the welcome.
When i am in chat i try to say hi to all that come in as i knows it helps people to relax a bit, but many people can be in whispers so there might not be as many in the main room as you think.
Am sure i will catch you around at some stage, so hang in there and dont give up.
Sean
As Sean has already said we do try and say hi to peeps as they enter the chatrooms and try to make the users feel welcome.. just jump in to chat, promise most users dont bite... unless asked ;)
Hi Sean and Temp , I agree with what you both said , its not putting us off at all but has been said to us , so we said we would put it up to see what people thought , we are nearly always in whisper with some peeps lol so our hands are up on that score , We have to say that we are members on a few sites and this is streets ahead when it comes to the people on here , we find people on here friendly and helpful if you have a prob and as for biting lol we nibble back .
We are on here years and still find if you dont jump in there in chat you get no where, i do say hi to ppl i know in chat first and then put up a general hiya room, dont often get a response but have great fun watching the chat and getting to know ppl by what i am reading lol