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hi everyone i have been on this site for good few weeks now and i have to admit getting tired of it already just looking for people to boost my faith again i suppose! do single straight guys actually get much action on this site at all it seems like there is 10000 men on here and 10 women!lol......
im on here for a while and your right there is not much women and anyone that is here is all talk
well thats not very good news!
guys the ratio of guys to girls on site is not in your favour , but there are a lot of genuine people on here who do meet up . its not as simple as joining up and straighwaway hooking up .. most people on here will want to talk for a bit first .. dont give up .. keep trying and hope you find some fun
as bi says guys. u need to join chat an get to know peeps. we all started somewhere but dont give up as yet. as wit everything it takes trust an the only way to get tat is join in chat an add a little an peeps will answer back. we not all bad ye know... sexy s&s
we agree with bi and sexy, it is possible for most on here to have success, even singles, but it is more the way u talk and chat, if u have a good sence of humour, show respect, give people time to get to know u. Dont push for a meet, and dont come up with silly chat lines, then the oppotunities are endless
There always will be plenty of single guys on websites but like everyone has already said get into the chatroom & start chatting also the meet & greets are a great way of meeting peeps. Never try to be pushy as it will turn people off. Sexycpl4u
thanks for the reply's guys will have to try takin on some of your advice see what happens.
As i single fem and i am always in chatrooms i am way more likely to talk to the guys that are having the laugh in general chat than the one whispering me asking me to go private etc etc, but thats just me!
by the way.... i keep getting posted twice !!!apologies
the way most single blokes go wrong is getting too pushy and whispering without consent, if they take there time and got to know prople they'd have more of a chance getting to meet up with peeps
ehm.....jay - u whisper me all the time without asking.....:giggle: but seriously - if i hear one more guy moaning about not being able to meet girls i think i will throw myself out the window. there is only so many guys we can get around and to be honest e-mails like "hey wanna fuck" is going to get u nowhere and fast. i am in the chat room every day (god that sounds sad..) and i tend to chat to everyone.............always knew i could talk for ireland and yes i actually do meet people. so quit with the complaining and get talking - and i mean nicely not "hey ur georgeous" when we know ourselves that we look shite cause we have been on the tear all the night b4.....:crazy:
but seriously - if i hear one more guy moaning about not being able to meet girls i think i will throw myself out the window. Well,,We can't meet anyone either,,,,,lmao...:giggle: Nah,,Have to agree here,,the chatrooms,,and attitude are the way to go here..Make friends,and have a laugh,,It's the only way..After all,Make a woman laugh,,and your doing things right..Unwanted,,and uncalled for whispers have to be annoying,especially when they are getting lots during one chatroom convo... Be nice guys,,and it just may pay off in the long run.....Besides,,What's the rush??
Whats the rush!! i've got balls like watermelons have'nt had it in 6 months!! Lol
Then think of plam & the five sisters hehehehe
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Whats the rush!!
i've got balls like watermelons have'nt had it in 6 months!! Lol
hi all. i understand how it is trying to make contact and hook up with ladies and couples more than most. whatever chance ye younger guys have, imagine what its like for a guy my age. the problem for me is that girls and couples are not willing to take the chance on what a guy my age has to offer. i can only speak for myself and must say they are wrong to prejudge. on the plus side, i have had the pleasure of the friendship and the excitement of being with 2 very nice and genuine couples. they must know and believe age is truly only a number. question is... will they sing my praises and open more doors for me. either way, im happy in the knowledge that ive been there and truly enjoyed their company. jim.
Iv read this a few times,and yes i have decided that the generalisation of "most single girls" annoys me, those sweeping statments insult single girls that actually do meet ppl, and dont do anything to improve ppl chances of productive or fun meets ok there , better now its off my chest
worship ahh slightly you're not "most girls"....a crack of the whip or the sound of a paddle will tell most people that :moon:
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Iv read this a few times,and yes i have decided that the generalisation of "most single girls" annoys me, those sweeping statments insult single girls that actually do meet ppl, and dont do anything to improve ppl chances of productive or fun meets
ok there , better now its off my chest

Slightly really glad to see you felt exactly as I did about that post, I did add a reply, but it was removed over another matter..
This posts smacked off we didn't get what we wanted, and you know why?? because the vast majority of girls and women on Swing are not bimbos, ready to drop their knickers for anyone.
We are smart enough to know that not all prospective meets take place for many reasons, mostly becauase they don't feel right perhaps, timing is wrong, there is a list of reasons..
On both sides....
Would you go home with everyone you met in a pub? nightclub?
I doubt very many women or men would..
I was so angry when I read the post and the post that was removed, I could have said a lot more, but each to their own!!!
Just want to clarify I removed my original reply , as it was written in hastesmile