Newbies need advice

28 Aug 2012

Hi, We have been on the site for a long time, but we have never met anyone and bit nervious. Talked about it alot, but have never tried it. Always wanted to find a club, instead of meeting Couple to Couple for the first time. Would love to attend a club depending on where it is. We would like to meet others with same interests, but may not go any further than a few drinks, flirt and a dance for the first time, but you never know, depends on the nerves. We now want to make the plung and would love some advice on how to get started Thanks K and R

30 Aug 2012

You should consider getting yourselves to a meet and greet. There are a number of them on the lets meet up forum. They are a much more relaxed way to meet similar couples socially and sure you can take it from there, and as they are only a meet and greet there is no pressure on you to do anything. If you meet someone and click with them and want to head off then thats totally up to all of you. Jump into chat and you wont be long before you are talking to people. The longest journey always starts with a single slow steady step. Sean

16 Oct 2012

:welcome: to :swingingchair: 4 If your not ready for the meet and greet thing get into chat, it can be fun and most people are very welcoming lol