Hi everyone, 29 year old fella, new to this. I'm hoping to meet some intelligent fun people to hang out and have some fun with. I'm a big fella so if you're into skinny guys or bodybuilder types then jog on, but if you're into a meeting of the minds as much as the body come say hi.
I'm not a shallow person but I'm not really into very thin women. Mature women especially welcome.
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Warming the Bed
hey there,
had to reply, am online with a friend and shes quite skinny, once she took a look at your thread she was actually offended..... its funny how when a person says they dont want a particular type, those types feel left out...
anyway fair play to ya, you sound like a lad who knows what he wants... but you mite want to look around at the profiles, may be wrong but you dont look large compared to some of the pics that class themselves as 'masculine'... mabye there should be a place where they could also say exactly when it was that they were masculine......... 
Warming the Bed
thats supposed to read muscular not masculine, im all distracted, sorry......... :-o
Well tell your friend that when I say "too skinny" what I mean is "bony". "Quite skinny", as you describe her, is just fine by me. Unless you're friend could be described as bony, in which case i'm simply sorry to offend.
And by "big" I guess I mean to say that i'm both muscular AND overweight. Tall, big shoulders, big arms, tree trunk legs, big ol' beer belly. I'm kindly described by my more sensitive close friends as "cuddly"
Warming the Bed
ah dont worry bout her, she gets offended by a lot less... no, shes not bony and like most women she thinks shes fat, more like fat chance..
nice detailed description you gave there, cuddly aint a bad way to be... i think its much better when a person is comfortable in their own skin and certainly i for one am not a woman that goes by looks... i know this cuz ive been told time and time again..:-)
im a lot more interested in people who are happy with their lot and dont go around moaning about what they would like to look like while doing nothing about it...
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i guess i had expectations when i joined up, though im beginning to revise them now, it think... :P
its great that you can revise that profile thing, its a bit of a nuisance trying to figure out what to say... OK so your on a site where its presumed that everyone wants to meet up with other people, but how do you appeal to a persons better nature... or for that matter, how do you appeal to the people you want to appeal to....
least there are no awkward moments where you have to dast to the ladies cuz sumone doesn't just get the hint.... and belive me if a person dont get the hint when i give it, then their first language aint english... have been accused of being blunt at times :-?
so i like the whole chat area, its cool, no harm in sharing a few views every now and again i guess...
Warming the Bed
i like the chat rooms myself, guess its a place of meeting like minded people at least....
just cant believe the amount of people who try to pass themselves off as somebody else.. how does that work, if they go and meet a couple or person... jeez its mad :-?
so ive been chatting to a few guys on the site but so far have not had much luck with what i was originally looking for... been looking at a few couples that sound like cool people so have replied to a few and see where that takes me....
hows the form with the rest of ye???
