Well Hello everyone,
as my username suggests... it's "only me", so my profile isn't for a couple, I'm not gay or bi, I'm just me, a clean fortysomething male who's too young to be old and not old enough to have any sense Lol!
At least being a male I won't get bombarded with emails and chats in the forums, (sometimes I feel sorry for the new girls or any girls really as they just seem to get hit on constantly).
Saying that, I have sent out 23 messages to either people who initially sent me a message or to people I liked the profiles of... and how many replied??? None!!! But then I knew that would be the case as I've had a profile on here before for three months and not a dickiebird of interest, (well apart from the guys who liked my pics).
I will continue to try to make friends in here; but the inner circle is hard to penetrate and I'll probably give up again after another three months.
Well, at least I'll get a chance to be lambasted for telling the truth about my experience with this site. It looks good but is very difficult for males to get in, I've already been told that.
Thanks for taking the time to read my speil if nothing else.
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Hello to you all
What is this inner circle you speak of, and why am I not in it
Just teasing onlyme, I can understand why you are feeling the site is not working for you, but judging from your post, you come across as a genuine, fun guy.
Keep going, 23 mails is very little actualy on a swing site, one guy claimed he sent 800 and no replies.
Good luck anyway and hope you find the Holy Grail.
Just teasing onlyme, I can understand why you are feeling the site is not working for you, but judging from your post, you come across as a genuine, fun guy.
Keep going, 23 mails is very little actualy on a swing site, one guy claimed he sent 800 and no replies.
Good luck anyway and hope you find the Holy Grail. 
I jest, say hello if our paths meet in the chat, have fun and be yourself.
Padds:violin:
well im highly offended to read that NO ONE replied because i know for a fact that someone extremely nice (allegedly lol) who rants (allegedly) did reply to one of your twenty was it eight emails. nothing else to say except hope to chat again soon. bt26lass
everyone else seems to have left you a quote but im struggling ... thinks ... a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush?? LOL BEST i could do sorry lol
hey only-me, I think you will find as you see here, most ppl tend to get to know other via the forums and chat, and yeah I know chat isnt easy to break into at times, but persevere it can be done,there is a great bunch of ppl on here to get to know, have fun, will keep an eye out for you in the chat rooms :evil2:
As one of the new single girls you mentioned the sympathy is appreciated. I do try to reply to everyone at least once but it's not always possible. In the few weeks I've been here I've had a LOT of mails, one nights fun on cam left me with 50 to sort through the next morning, and there are at least 8 unread messages floating around that I can't find in all the pages. I'm sure I am missing the oppertunity to meet some lovely people because I've lost track of mails. I wish there was a filter for the timewasters but alas thats not possible. Having said that, I have met people from the site, so it's not impossible. The mails I respond to best are the freindly, nice mails which tend to be a bit more than just one line. Hope the site works out for you a bit better this time.
Hmmmmm yes Bt, back to what I said, I sent 23 mails and got none back; and then along comes you babe, I sent you one and 13 come back from you :-) Talk about feast or famine.
It is a laugh this site, you can't take it too serious or you'ld be bonkers in no time! Lol!
Oh and a quote....
"You can lead a horse to water but a pencil must be lead"
My Fav :-)
It is a laugh this site, you can't take it too serious or you'ld be bonkers in no time! Lol!
Oh and a quote....
"You can lead a horse to water but a pencil must be lead"
My Fav :-)
Quote by user=BT26lass
:violin:
well im highly offended to read that NO ONE replied because i know for a fact that someone extremely nice (allegedly lol) who rants (allegedly) did reply to one of your twenty was it eight emails. nothing else to say except hope to chat again soon. bt26lass
everyone else seems to have left you a quote but im struggling ... thinks ... a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush?? LOL BEST i could do sorry lol
