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i dont think us single men have a chance on this site

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Well i did a wide search for single women and was told i should broaden my the bi curious females seem only into their d be great if a woman would proove me wrong but id say if a single woman was to join, she d run a mile with all the mail she d recieve
Hi ,well, i think the reason there are so many bi or bi curious females is because of the options open to us when we are filling out the profile which are Straight female Bi Female Bi Curious Female Lesbian Transexual. you see the problem is that if you put yourself down as , "Stright Female" that rules you out of contact or play with couples, so alot of girls , chose the bi female or bi curious female, to keep their options open , so to speak Or maybe we are just greedy ;)
madhton: I dont mind chattin or talkin dirty to single males I will help out anyway i can biggrin but most of the males just want to meet up straight away for sex what happened to romance 8) id have to be chatted up for at least half an hour before i get my knickers off! p.s. i dont wear knickers on tuesdays
its a shite ov.i'm no comp geek but think i could do beter!for a start you wanna get rid of all the fake the agree?
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madhton:
I dont mind chattin or talkin dirty to single males
I will help out anyway i can biggrin
but most of the males just want to meet up straight away for sex
what happened to romance 8)
id have to be chatted up for at least half an hour before i get my knickers off!
p.s. i dont wear knickers on tuesdays
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as some body else wrote with 30,000 members could swing4ireland not arrange a party for its members to meet and see how it goes from there,instead of all this e-mail ping pong.i have posted genuine requests and not one i did not want your knickers off inthe first half hour,meet first in a public place or public house,take it from on every body lets have some fun,respond to adds even if not interested but a least thank them for their enquiry.
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have anyone here ..genuinely meet up with another member and actually get intosome actions..or this is just another website..someone could verify?
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Well i did a wide search for single women and was told i should broaden my the bi curious females seem only into their d be great if a woman would proove me wrong but id say if a single woman was to join, she d run a mile with all the mail she d recieve

I disagree, I only joined a few days ago but have gotten many messages from single women and had some great experiences so far. I think its important to put up a picture of yourself (your face, not just yer cock) if ya wanna get a response. Just keep flirting and see what happens
Yep...very disappointing...easier to join an elite golfclub. Would even go as far as to say that any goodlooker on the web room is probably on the payroll!!!!!!!!!!!
look at it this way ppl, there's far more men on this site than women , ok when you go on chat most of the rooms are filled with men, any women that enter are then inundated with messages an instant proposals. And naturally enough theres more that think that just because your on this site it means sex endof...........wrong i've been knocking around awhile now and before you get on to any stage you gotta gain trust respect, and a bit of romance might go along way too, personally i don't think i'd be too overwhelmed by the first woman on offering sex without so much as talkin a bit to me first an gettin to know me(but then again that hasn't happened to me) you gotta build some sort of a friendship / bond in order for it to be anyway stimulating, you can cop off with anybody but i think this site has more to do with fufillment too and finding what maybe lacking or lost at home...? or have i got it all wrong........?
Make your profiles freakin interesting for god sake. People who are going to want a single male are going to want one of two things: 1) A guy with a huge cock 2) A guy with a well structured profile giving a general idea of what he's like and what he's looking for* *'Hai ladies mail me I'm looking for sex' does not count as a good instance of this Most guys have got the most pathetic profiles with no description of themselves and no pictures, yet they continue to whine that no-one contacts them....that it's clear they're after sex in a most desperate fashion, not 'swinging'. Put some effort in before you can expect to get anything out.
I'm probably in the minority here, however the reason I joined the site was because of it's name - Swing = which led me to believe that it was for couples to meet up and do their thing. We are a couple and are definately NOT looking for single males. Doesn't stop them mailing me though!
I'm in the situation while I'm attached the other half has no interest in swinging and does not mind if i look else were. To get any where with the females on this site you need to be a couple while some say put up your picture not every one wants the world to know what they are up to sexually and while i don't mind showing my dick which is of average size that does not show what you look like as a person I would like to meet a female swinging partner single or attached i'm not into the quick wham bam thank you mam stuff I have emailed a few females but got no replies i found the time to email them and it is only good manners to reply back what can u lose well that was my ten cents worth
Why do you guys moan and whine about this? The facts are simple... women and couples do meet but considering theres prob 90% guys they can be selective. Fair enough theres time wasters but you just gotta grow a thick skin to it. You never know whats down the other end and if you delude yourself with your OWN fantasy then a big let down is what you deserve. Look at how many times a post is viewed when its from a couple saying they want a guy.... 500/600 (you can see it right there).... how many messages do you think they get from those views... 200? Guys you are one in a long chain of many others and unless you know how to get a step ahead you wont get ANY messages or meets. Bitching about on a forum is not the way the go.
Looking like George Clooney and being well hung has helped me on the site
The site is no different to real life. Wandering up to a woman and waving your cock at her is going to get the same response as metaphorically doing it on here during the first meeting.
Some fellas cant get their head around the fact that people here wanna play, but that doesn't necessarily mean they wanna play with them!.
Patience and being semi-articulate helps.