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Hi ladys i was wondering is there a right way to approach you about discreet sex or a wrong way (help me out) 8)
Listen, im not a lady but cant tell you for free that its the same on a swing site as it is in reality. Do you really think that a lady will reply and say "fine i will meet you at such and such a place and we will have sex immeadiatly? Nope. Fact is you still have to meet her, you still have to make her feel like she is very speicial and pamper her emotions and you still have to be you have about 5 seconds to do the line your still taking a chance of being shot down. If your genuine ,dont rush things,treat her properly and she is the slightest bit attracted to you, things should work not forget her fast and move on. Simply, Dr, Westside. :shock:
Ah, West, The old Threads, periodically need a bump,,, we miss Westside
Jaysus!! Padds - when you do Spring Cleaning - you really find some old stuff lurking - though it also proves, nothing much changes really.
For the Newbies to the site - a few clues:
1] Don't use an overtly sexually explicit handle - it's a bitch when you're at a social meet and have to introduce yourself as 'WetPussyLover' or other such obvious red facers :giggle:
2] Treat the folks here the same as you would if you met them in the local watering hole - they are humans still and deserve respect and civility at all times - even when it's sex that is the 'Holy Grail' of our membership here boink
3] Take time to get to know the folks - not just perve their pics/cams - it's amazing the friends you can make when you can have a conversation that doesn't revolve around 'what you wearing - is it sexy?' loon
4] Show willing to meet halfway - no pics will mean no meets. and if you aren't prepared to travel - don't expect others to travel to you. :notes:
5] Be patient! Connections take time to develop - some more than others - so if you are looking for a quick leg-over the same month you join up to this site - you may as well go back to Punthouse and wanking in the bathroom - it ain't going to happen!! :wank:
Most importantly - be positive and SMILE biggrin
There's nothing quite so powerful as a Smile

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You never get a second chance to make a First Impression - make it count
marie brilliant response to his question an very correct .
Westie come back:upset: And blokes dont tell ladys how big your cock is..prove it put it on cam in a private room and your face too.
wonders did Poster ever get anywhere ..... He's still ere! S that a good sign??!! :giggle:dunno :lol2::happy::smug:
To be honest some guys think this is a 'free' escort site ffs! often got messages "I will be staying at xxxx hotel tonight if you fancy it". I mean honestly guys - whatcha thinking at all??? And these would be men with no photos - not established etc!!" Eh yeah sure just grab my coat babe.....bolt
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To be honest some guys think this is a 'free' escort site ffs! often got messages "I will be staying at xxxx hotel tonight if you fancy it". I mean honestly guys - whatcha thinking at all??? And these would be men with no photos - not established etc!!" Eh yeah sure just grab my coat babe.....bolt

I allways say "Our duty free products are NOT for sale"
Great words Marie, very true.....Its all about a wee bit of cope on and communication.