Wow! quite a few people here seem to be open about there sexuality. As for me, the only people who know are people that I have met through this & similar sites & that is how I intend to keep it, but then like many other guys on this site I am married & here without my partners knowledge.
I don't feel the need to know of others sexual preferences or private lives & also don't feel the need to divulge mine. It's not likely to ne noticed by anyone as I don't eye up other guys when out in public, women however are a different matter ;).
Generally speaking I don't find men physically atractive, I just see myself as sexually open to different things. As long as I can relax & feel comfoprtable with someone & know that they share similar sexual interests with me I can be quite open and honest, but only if they ask.
Just found this thread, great discussion. I am married and bi, lucky that i have a very open, modern thinking wife who supports me. I havent told anyone else though, but at this stage, lifes too short, if they find out, well, i wont have changed, will they?