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well i for one love single males :giggle: but the basis of this site is a swing site which is ....(swngng) Slang
adj.
1. Spirited; up-to-date.
2. Attracting a lively, trendy crowd: a swinging nightclub.
3.
a. Sexually promiscuous.
b. Practicing exchange of partners, especially spouses, for sex.********
sadly a lot (but not all) single males treat this site as a dial-a-roide site, treat it as a porn site or use it for pulling the piss 
it's a site that is a community based on trust, being discreet, respect, mutual attraction and like minded sexually free people.
So, Declan chin up ;) hehehe and take the time to get to know people or get to a M&G and show that you are genuine.....happy hunting :rascal:
worsh xx
it's a site that is a community based on trust, being discreet, respect, mutual attraction and like minded sexually free people.
So, Declan chin up ;) hehehe and take the time to get to know people or get to a M&G and show that you are genuine.....happy hunting :rascal:
worsh xx Quote by worshipme
well i for one love single males :giggle: but the basis of this site is a swing site which is ....(swngng) Slang
adj.
1. Spirited; up-to-date.
2. Attracting a lively, trendy crowd: a swinging nightclub.
3.
a. Sexually promiscuous.
b. Practicing exchange of partners, especially spouses, for sex.********
sadly a lot (but not all) single males treat this site as a dial-a-roide site, treat it as a porn site or use it for pulling the piss
it's a site that is a community based on trust, being discreet, respect, mutual attraction and like minded sexually free people.
So, Declan chin up ;) hehehe and take the time to get to know people or get to a M&G and show that you are genuine.....happy hunting :rascal:
worsh xx
Very well said worship.
To add to that declan,something helen said to me!
We just play with single girls,but if helen wanted to add one more guy she would be more then welcome..but she says adding another girl she gets to play with and i get to play with to! So noone is left out.(90% girls here are bi)
If another guy was added its only she that gets to play as im stright!
She see this as not right,whereas it does not bother me to much as she get full attention and pleased...she has a point.
And because she is bi haveing an extra girl sees her looked after in the same way!
There is also no drama with adding couples and single gals,as alluded to above..two male = two egos if a guy was with helen for example and did anything to disrespect her im very dom and protective lol only im allowed slap her nd b mean to her lol,,it could lead to drama.
So most couples avoid the grief! Unless as worship has said you have gone to a meet nd greet and proved yourself respectfull and understanding that if you were invited into somecouples life for a night you could be trusted..
From what we can see of your pic you look like helens type,if she meet you at a meet nd greet and you got on there is a chance,but you have to convince me ie the male too lol.
So the odds are against single guys here..as worship said this is not dial a ride,its a place to meet people whom have the same interests and then and only then something might come out of it
Orgasminator
declan get in to chatrooms and like worship said get to meet and greets they are a great way of meeting ppl . i meet singles guys fems and cpls
Not to bring up old threads but I have a perfect example of the reason why some people find it difficult here,...
Got a post from a single male, which said very little except that he was what I was looking for with a photo attached to the mail. I responded politely saying that I wasn't interested and happy swinging.
I then got this back:
"ok sorry for wasting your time its just like every1 else on here ya have to be in the click and the click doesn't involve sigle males well i hope you and the click get on well together such a waste of time this site. sorry for wasrit
ng yor time"
Well, reading between the very confusing lines...now it's my fault I'm not interested because I'm in the click (sic) and it doesn't involve single males. I am wished well in my continued membership of the click (sick) and that this place is a waste of time. From careful review of my comments, you can see that I am not someone who doesn't like single guys. In fact, I like them very much!
So, this is a good example of why sometimes, it's easier to not even answer emails unless you are interested. Gah!!
:jagsatwork: Perfectly said NB
Now we dont refuse single males at our parties simply cos the single girlies do like them as does Mrs Sugar. But like others have said above no member is comfortable meeting a non verified member which is where meet and greets come into play.
Simple as this: if you dont put in the effort you get no reward.
Girls & couples arent just gona say here I am come and get it :uhoh:
No you will need to get verified and this will happen if you attend M&Gs and actually make conversation with others in attendance. Sitting in a corner at a function on your own gets you nowhere.
Some say go into the chatroom but nah that wouldnt do for us. We would either have to meet you at a M&G or see that others have met you IN PERSON before we would consider meeting you. Just cos we spoke in chat dont mean anything to us. After all a single guy may not be what he says he is in a chatroom.
To catch a predator put me off relying on chatrooms as proof of who people may be.
So regarding "clicks/cliques" yeah there are some and anyone who says that there arent are either lying or just blind. But you dont have to be a member of one to get some swing action on here. All you need is to make the effort at a m&g or two and you should see some kind of result.
My definition of cliques in swinging would be a group of people who are friendly with each other and who constantly swing together, who laugh at each others jokes in forums and who continually slap each other on the back for the smallest things. Not really our kinda thing but quite a few people on here seem to need that grouping of strength. Besides all that, we would find fucking the same people over and over again quite boring.
Variety would be our preference
I think there's actually a very simple answer to all of this and it has nothing to do with the site being for couples and single females only
..... Right of refusal
At the end of the day people have things they like or don't like. Some like single males but only like a particular type of single male, or couple or single female for that matter. It's all about what tickles your fancy really and not everyone will do that. Also on the meeting verified and commented members I have to agree from a female point of view I would have in the past be only inclined to meet someone who was verified and that's purely for my own personal safety and well being and I don't think any single female should feel the need to excuse themselves on that basis.
The clique thing raising its head again 
Honestly it's ridicules really, people have every right to be friends or have a group of friends and when you are on the scene a long time which is very small, strong friendships are bound happen now that's not to everyone's cup of tea but each to their own lol honestly sometimes when the word "clique" is mentioned have visions of mean girls roaming around the site :twisted: Pmsl.
Lads if you are struggling get into chat and join the banter get yourself known and by that I don't mean uninvited whispers lol
Try get to a meet and greet and I'm sure if you are yourself treat the ladies with respect and try enjoy the social side of things the rest will quickly follow 
Honestly it's ridicules really, people have every right to be friends or have a group of friends and when you are on the scene a long time which is very small, strong friendships are bound happen now that's not to everyone's cup of tea but each to their own lol honestly sometimes when the word "clique" is mentioned have visions of mean girls roaming around the site :twisted: Pmsl.
Lads if you are struggling get into chat and join the banter get yourself known and by that I don't mean uninvited whispers lol
Try get to a meet and greet and I'm sure if you are yourself treat the ladies with respect and try enjoy the social side of things the rest will quickly follow Quote by Kitten28
I think there's actually a very simple answer to all of this and it has nothing to do with the site being for couples and single females only
..... Right of refusal
At the end of the day people have things they like or don't like. Some like single males but only like a particular type of single male, or couple or single female for that matter. It's all about what tickles your fancy really and not everyone will do that. Also on the meeting verified and commented members I have to agree from a female point of view I would have in the past be only inclined to meet someone who was verified and that's purely for my own personal safety and well being and I don't think any single female should feel the need to excuse themselves on that basis.
The clique thing raising its head again
Lads if you are struggling get into chat and join the banter get yourself known and by that I don't mean uninvited whispers lol
Try get to a meet and greet and I'm sure if you are yourself treat the ladies with respect and try enjoy the social side of things the rest will quickly follow
Kitten hun ya nailed it :thumbup:
Single Girls/Guys and Couples all have the right of refusal without having to offer any explanation
And we are all entitled to have friendships ,as lots of us socialise and are in contact offsite too..
As the other posters have said, make the effort and it pays off :lol:
