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WHISPERS IN CHATROOM AND DISABLING
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or.......they could just get over themselves and ignore them.
Quote by user=dora
look i maybe unpopular here.. but the whispering thing is driving the mods crazy
You are not unpopular with me Dora. I honestly like you, I think you are so cool and think you bring a different breath of air to this site. Im glad you are who you are and that you are comfortable with it. If others arent comfortable with you then that is their tough luck. I'm a straight guy, but if I met you at a M&G Id boogie on down with you on the dancefloor, and wouldnt give a rats what anyone else thought. Stay as feminine as you can sweetie, because that is who you are. And can you imagine if we were all the same on here? What a boring place this would be. Take care darling.
:therethere: :smitten:PS: Sorry for going of topic Dora but the unpopular thing kind of enraged me.
Quote by user=mrhornydubcpl4
or.......they could just get over themselves and ignore them.
I do ingore whispers.....the vast majority of the time.....but there are some that are persistant.....crude and on ocassion downright abusive.
I will ignore the usual...'hi can i whisper' ones......even if they do it over again.....its when they start having full blown one sided converstions in whispers that it can become a tad annoying.
But as I said.....I tend to leave them too it.
Dora...that is a great idea....never really thought about doing it as I am one of those females who likes to chat away to friends in whispers.
That's actually a very good idea Dora.
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Like after the Site going to the trouble of adding this feature to dis-able, the responsibility/onus/expectation is on us to activate this function and regulate it. So, basically the general consensus? should or would be that we'd all be expected to have our whispers dis-abled from the start, so, with Site Rules and polite-ness in mind, you should ask to whisper anyway even if it is a "girlie," lol or a friend etc., then they'd enable whispers for as long as necessary, and dis-able them again when finished whispering.
So, if we got this in-use by every-one to the stage as "norm" pretty much as a given, where every-one's whispers are dis-abled until asked, it will become the norm in time. Personally I never dis-able whispers, it just doesn't occur to me to do so. Is there any/many more that just leave as is? But in a 4or5 hour spell online, how many genuines/friends will you be engaging in whispers with 3or4 maybe? So it may not be too much to do lol to dis-able and re-enable when finished each time where it would be a minimal few people you would be whispering with. If there'd be a lot of people you'd be whispering with in a Chat-room well then maybe that's a whole other Thread?
Two good points like Dora said, may be that having to dis-able and re-enable would dis-courage whispering itself and may induce more chat in main. Plus not having to deal with those whisperers you don't want won't take up the Mods' time.
One bad point would be that Twonks/Messers who slip through the net where the dis-able feature will be in use, havin their kicks and chancin their arms whispering horrible abusive stuff won't be dealt with appropriately. But I guess because they will effectively be ignored in a way this is some small way of dealing with them.
Quote by user=dora
i was told bout the disable button in chat of whispers and it made my chatroom life so much easier.. guys now have to chat in the open and if they dont well i was glad i didnt allow that eejit to whisper me....
so here is the thing.. a lot of females like to have their whispers on so they can chat to each other and id love that also but lookk at what hassle it causes...
1st you hear a female has been hassled by a whisperer and the room gets agitated..
2nd.. the poor mods have to work 5 times as hard because of the hasslers simply because the females want to have whispers open and yet complaine whrn they get a nasty whisper..
so here is my suggestion..
disable your whisper and if a girlfriend wants to chat open it for a bit and then disable it again .. it works wonders for me as i got hassled constantly.. .. its funny as i only remember to disable when i get my 1st whisper and straight away i disable..
so id encourage all to disable as much as possible.. saves the mods endless extra effort...
tell me what you think...
Dora
Good for you Dora, you try the chowder yet ..................
I dont mind anyone that i would be in regular contact with whispering to me without asking first. Its the single males i never spoke to or who arent est and who think i want to have chatroom sex. eh no thanks. but anyone who id know from posting or from chatting openly in the chatroom with is fine to whisper me without asking. but the blow ins and those we never spoke to shouldnt whisper without asking first
