What is swinging?
Is it the ability to pursue ones sexuality/ sexual interests without moralistic judgement or emotional attachment.
Okay I don't go in for the wikipedia , text book explanations for swinging..
Simply because it means many differnet things to all of us.
Swinging for me is the sharing of my body sexualy with other people, sharing my sexual needs and preferneces with likeminded people.
Now sharing sexualy can also involve involve engaging in friendship, so I enjoy the added bonus of being comfortable with those I am with.
Some people, and I fully understand their opinion, believe that singles should not be swingers, it should only be a couple pursuit..
But why not? As a single fem who meets couples, and enjoys group situations, am I to be excluded because I am on my own?
No not in my opinion, each of us bring to the swinging lifestyle, our own uniqueness and that should be embraced and enjoyed.
If I was attached but here alone, should I be excluded? again not in my opinion, I leave my private life at home when I am swinging..
Far too many people seek to judge others, I often wonder if it is because they may not be totaly comfortable with their own sexuality and reasons for being here.
Recently I was asked to send my pics, a guy replied, great legs shame about the rest of you, your body is woeful..
Now that is hurtful in the extreme, but in my opinion that is judgement based on ignorance!
So I honestly think that as swingers, we should never judge, yes we should enjoy and seek our personal preferneces as we go along, but never seek to hurt or offend as we do.
Alan and Virgo, I would agree with you both there :thumbup:
Am in total agreement also Virgo good thread alan
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Sherri, this is way off topic but could you please tell me what your avatar picture is?
I would agree that swinging should be without moral judgement and emotional attachment but we have to remember that judging situations and becoming emotionally attached are all part of been human, so it is not realistic to expect this life style to be free of the human condition. But it might help if people kepted their personal judgements on peoples situations to themself while engaging in this lifestyle.
you are so right raven we all are different here thank god have made a good few freinds here if you cant say something nice say nothing at all
yeah indulging in yours (and the people you are with) fantasies, having a laugh and enjoying a social meeting with likeminded friends