Orgasminator
hi there - again and again on site profiles I see the term "no players". I must be a bit thick cos I don't know what the term means when the whole idea seems to be go out and play? Can anyone clue me in please?
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What is a "Player"?
Orgasminator
Thanks for that Smith - now I guess what are people looking for when they ask for nsa and no relationship types? Isn't a player actually exactly what they want so?
Orgasminator
We can go with that Horny - open to all ideas here :welcome:
Knock,
smith5001 has it pretty close. In American vernacular, it usually refers to a serial dater who may have more than one partner "on the hook" at any given time. Can refer to male or female but usually to males. This is derogatory when applied by those who are in search of a steady or monogamous partner. Thus the term..."Don't hate the player, hate the game."
You're right though, Knock, in wondering how that applies here in a NSA environment.
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When I was abroad, a player was known as someone who lead people a merry dance of inticement and intrigue, kinda like a time waster, never coming up with the goods when they imply the will. I assume its same here.
We think your spot on there Sherri for this particular environment, [ie. swing}
Sex God
I was accused of being too much of a 'Player' by a fellow site member once, But we since..'Resolved' the situation.......
Orgasminator
:Pa longtime ago from my mid 20,s to late 30,s i was refered to as a player on more than one ocassion ie having 4-5 girlfriends that didnt know anything about the other that was until cupid hit me with mrs tusseys arrow ,now im a one trick pony :doggy::doggy::doggy::doggy::smoke:lol
Quote by user=sherri
When I was abroad, a player was known as someone who lead people a merry dance of inticement and intrigue, kinda like a time waster, never coming up with the goods when they imply the will. I assume its same here.
I think you have hit the nail on the head Sherri.....and I think your description aptly fits how the term player is used on this site........its how I see it anyway...........xxxxanny
Orgasminator
Quote by user=dora
wel a player to me is simple.. its a person male or female who plays the field as in horse racing... so if there were 11 horses running,.... wel id try n ride the 11 of them as opposed to sticking to one ... thats called 'playing the field'...
:lol2: oh I know that one well Dora, but that is why we are here? No? :grin: Else as a single you end up in a monogomous relationship and so we shouldn't be on this site. Do ye rem tat comedy that used to be on tv... forgot the name... but they always said "We know a song about that...
F**k Them all, F**k them all.. the long and the short and the tall 
I think I prefer Sherri's version which means time wasters... I like playing after all :doggy::doggy:
On site Knock...
Everyone loves to play Knock, but for me a player is someone male or female who has no respect for people feelings when it comes to sex...
Swinging should be about respect, but some take pleasure in messing, making life difficult for others by gossiping, having agendas, abusing friendships, playing the field on respective partners without their knowledge, meddling in peoples relationships then trying to look sqeaky clean afterwards, all of this smacks to me of the term being a player on a site and that is simply not males , females as well..
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On site Knock...
Everyone loves to play Knock, but for me a player is someone male or female who has no respect for people feelings when it comes to sex...
Swinging should be about respect, but some take pleasure in messing, making life difficult for others by gossiping, having agendas, abusing friendships, playing the field on respective partners without their knowledge, meddling in peoples relationships then trying to look sqeaky clean afterwards, all of this smacks to me of the term being a player on a site and that is simply not males , females as well..
Virgo I would disagree with you there, the later half of that description sounds like a bloody mental case. Why would anyone try and mess up the relationships and private lives of a person they hardly know? sure we are all here just for the no strings adventures that can be had with other like minded souls?
Virgo I would disagree with you there, the later half of that description sounds like a bloody mental case. Why would anyone try and mess up the relationships and private lives of a person they hardly know? sure we are all here just for the no strings adventures that can be had with other like minded souls?
Ah you have a lot to learn about swinging sites, a lot of this goes on believe it or not, of course the idea of NSA is about no strings fun with like minded souls, but where you find that you will always find the messers and players.
