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Think about domestic violence and you think of women, battered by their husband, boyfriend, or a man they used to involved with. Now, think again. Every year in the U.S., about 3.2 million men are the victims of an assault by an intimate partner. Most assaults are of a relatively minor nature such as pushing, shoving, slapping or hitting, though many are more serious - and some end in homicide.
Intimate Partner Violence - The Stats
There are a number of difficulties in the collection of statistical data about intimate partner violence (IPV). The major problem is that the true size of IPV is unknown because of under-reporting. Statistical data are also affected by different countries and states not collecting data in the same way, partly because definitions of IPV can differ. This is particularly marked in the case of men, probably because of the stigma and embarrassment men may feel as victims of domestic violence.
It is universally recognized that women are more likely than men to be the victims of IPV. In 2002, 24 percent of U.S. homicides that were as a result of IPV were men, compared with 76 percent involving women as victims. The National Crime Victimization Survey reported in 2003 that 85 percent of IPV victims were women and that firearms were the weapons of choice in many homicides that occurred between 1981 and 1998. Research found that 22 percent of men (and 29 percent of women) experienced physical, sexual, or psychological IPV during their lifetime. Sadly, some children also become injured during IPV incidents between parents. Men of different ethnicity than their partners are at greater risk being a victim of IPV.
Why Men Do Not Report IPV Abuse
The level of violence inflicted on men by women is generally less serious than that inflicted on women, but IPV abuse is still a significant men's health problem.
One reason men do not report abuse is that they feel people will not believe them. Arguably, IPV towards women had been ignored for so long, society now finds the concept of violence towards men difficult to grasp and consequently has been slow to address it as a serious issue.
Men, even if they are hit by a woman partner in front of others, can often hide their abuse by saying they would never retaliate or hit a woman. Their 'abuse' can even be interpreted as a strength or masculine characteristic.
Humiliation as abuse is more difficult to rationalize. Belittling, humiliating IPV can have a devastating effect and sustains a relationship in which power rests unfairly with the abuser. Regular, repeated psychological and emotional abuse undermines confidence. Men begin to believe that they deserve the abuse they are getting, that they are worthless human beings nobody else would want. It is a difficult belief to turn around if it has gone on for a long time, and it is one of the major reasons why people remain in abusive relationships.

As what is called a victim of domestic violence, i get tired of constantly hearing about women suffering abuse, yes i am a woman but it is about time people started to realise that men suffer at the hands of women too.
I don't expect many replies to this thread as it is not an issue many people want to admit to or talk about but hopefully some people will reply and give this issue the attention it needs.
Would never dream of imagining that men do not suffer as a result of domestic violence, and never tire of the issue of both being raised... The difficulty for many women who have suffered is that most abuse is power dominated, and many women find it difficult to imagine that this can apply to males who are seen as the stronger of the two sexes.. It is only in the last 5-7 years that domestic viloence has been addressed properly and dealt with within society and the judical system, so progress for women has been slow.. Given that many men are not capable of admitting that they suffer, mostly for shame of being seen as weak, society finds it difficult to address the issue, but thankfuly with media campaigns, male mags highlighting the issue men are thankfuly able to talk openly and seek help... Violence against any sex is demoralising, the long term effects are appaling and leave scars both mentaly and phsyicaly.. So shout it from the roof tops folks, no woman or man has the right to control another with force!!!!!!!!
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a silent voice will never be heard
So true perfermanagh....
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