Why is it people find the need to whisper things to you when your on cam ...i was last night and a guy from kikenny was asking me to meet him ..do i no him ?no .Have i ever spoke to him in chat before? no so then he whispers ah yeah i no you ...well talking about seeing red ..kilkenny is a tiny place ,but i am an adult so kilkenny people please dont be whispering me you no me i really couldnt give a damm especialey when yr not adult enough to show me your face or tell me your name ..i exploded at this guy in chat last nite..because i refused him ..he said pretty girl but nasty ..this is just a warning to kilkenny people do not whisper me you no me ..i dont care an dont want to no that a married woman an all i have to worry about is my kids an my hub....sorry if it sounds harsh..buy last night my blood was boiling
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Warming the Bed
Playfull, you will soon learn that these people don't really actually know you. They do it to just try and wind you up and get a reaction from you, and judging by your post, seems like that's exactly what they got. It happens quite alot when my wife goes on cam but she just ignores them and they soon go away. That would be the only bit of advice i'd give you, ignore them and they'll leave you alone, otherwise, just disable your whispers whilst on cam 
was this a veiled threat to out you in Kilkenny... a meet me or else ultimatum... if that is the case it is a very sad indicitment of the particular individual. If you still have their name I would suggest you contact a moderator or admin & make an official complaint.
While the disable whispers is an option it might be better to embarrass the person by re printing their whispers in main chat ... they may not be so brave when others can also see what they are at.
Not sure if it would be a "veiled threat",As to be more of "blackmail".
Either way,,If PlayFull wants to drop Us,or any other of the Mods,or Admin a PM,with regards to the offender,we'll gladly deal with it,,and,Be sure,by the time We're done,this "guy" won't do it again!
It happened to Myself before also,,although,not on cam,the guy proclaimed that he knew Me/Us. I just said so what? How would he have known We were on a swing site,,if he wasn't on it also? He left the site very very soon afterwards...
)Some people eh...yeah ignoring them would be best, they wont get a kick out of whispering if they think you're not reading it, but then again if you are reading it some dickhead could really wreck your buzz.....call in the admin cavalry to sort him out next time.....I'd really hate to hear that you can't cam us anymore....I'll have to pay him a visit myself if that
am sorry this happened to you playfull. I rarely go on cam cause I usually get a few nasty whispers and it used to upset me at first but now I just ignore it. I was always afraid of someone recognising my face on here as we live in quite a small town and I see loads of people every day with my work....but anyone does try to pull that crap just remember playfull.....your hubbys knows where you are and what you are doing do their wives/girlfriends know what they are up to ???? It takes a lot of guts to go on cam so dont let these jokers put you off......take care anny
Sex God
Hi Playfull,
I remember the incident the other Night and when I warned him not to persist as he was antagonizing you he said that was his aim, ??????...so I kind of think that speaks volumes on the Individual. I have had the same happen to me on here and I was even threatened with my work place being notified I was on here when I had them banned for abusive behavior in the first place. I never found out who they were but to be honest I am not bothered they can't be much when they cowardly hide behind a screen and try to intimidate people, didnt stop me going on cam. Just Ignore similar events in future, the first time it happens is a shock to the system, but after that in fairness no one ca make that comment when they are on the site too, and I wouldn't let this one eejit hamper your enjoyment of the site.
Titan79.
Which all goes to prove Issac Newton's theorem that for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction; in other words, every town has a bollox counterbalanced by a star. Did ye not know that there is at least one bollox in Kilkenny? We can't all be stars like our goodselves.
LOL, Lance xx
Warming the Bed
Yes playful, i really can empathise with u hun. I had my first experience of this sort of thing on here lately and it was really distressing. This person even went on to whisper names of my family to me. Its a horrible experience and we even considered giving up using this site for a while because of it
