Last night I was in the beach bar when 'the boy westie' smiled at me and said hello. Given I had posted right throughout the past week regarding his inappropriate behaviour and his fake profiles etc etc I thought he had learned from the posts and was actually a nice guy. With this in mind I said hi back and engaged in some chit chat.
It was to my surprize and amazement that within a very short space of time he turned nasty and attempted to bait me with a comment that could have resulted in conflict between us both.
He also made a nasty remark to one of the ladies on cam to the effect " You are in no danger of having a brain tumour" - this was without doubt a disgraceful comment and for it to come from a moderator was without question unbelievable! bold text here
I realised very quickly that this boy actually needs conflict, he feeds on it, it makes him feel better in some sick way, he needs people to enage with him on this level in order to feel he even exists-that was my profound feeling and realisation at the time and I quickly but politely told him I wished no further contact from him.
After another silly comment to me he ceased his communication (I had not responded to his baiting) Credit to him for realising I was not going to become of his 'fuel pipes'. He is a toxic fire which will do everyhthing possible to find toxic fuel in anyone he encounters in order to keep burinng.
Let me be clear here and now I am not intending on becoming another westie type person who will be posting on every topic which appears on the boards. I simply think this 'boy westie' is a nasty piece of work and he is threatening to a lot of people on this site.
I thought his bully-type persona was restricted to the forums but last night I saw he also engages his sordid and cruel charcater in the chat rooms.
His status as a mod in a lot of cases may make people think he has the power to make life uncomfortable for them. As a result some may be afraid to confront him on his extremely inappropriate behaviour and comments. I dont know if this is the case or not?
But I do know the best way to treat this boy is to simply ignore him, do not engage him in his conflict-ridden self (yes, ok ok, pun intended, ;) it may be the only way he can get a ride) sorry sorry I just could not contain myself with my last comment :grin:. We gotta laugh dont we, we need some fun, its why we are all here, aint it!
Anyways this boy westie cannot exist without conflict so best just not to get into it with him. I certainly will not be chatting to him again as I sense a vile and vacant presence about him - a black hole is what he is - so be careful peeps be careful with this guy. Though he may be a mod (an illogical and insane position for him which is beyond my understanding) he is a dangerous energy to enage with!
I do hope with people not interacting with him in the arguments he likes to start, the boards and the chat rooms can be used for what they are intended, without any unnecessary distraction.
As always love to all ye genuine peeps who are searching for many many things here - conflict I believe is not one of them, so peace, peace, more peace, and them some luving! ;)
Will