Swinging and Pregnancy

3 Aug 2010

Myself and my wife were lucky enough to get pregnant eariler this year to our delight. We then decided to take a time out from swinging until the new arrival is home and well. We just thought it would be too weird for everyone involved, the other couple and ourselves. Fem has recently got very, very horny due to hormones and we have discussed the option of swinging again, what are peoples opinions on swinging while pregnant?

3 Aug 2010

um..... this is a tough one because I never want to offend anyone on the site.
Ultimately, the idea of swinging while pregnant is totally up to the two of you. If both of you are comfortable with it and okay with the risks, then go ahead. it is your decision.
Just make sure you are aware of all of the risks. From a strictly medical point of view, if I were pregnant, there is no chance in hell I would be swinging. I would never, ever engage in intimate acts with anyone on this site unless protection was used 100% of the time- that includes for anal, oral, and vaginal sex- regardless of whether I was pregnant or not. You need to keep in mind that if your wife would contract anything from someone on the site, it would be more difficult to treat. For instance, bacterial vaginosis (also known as BV) is an imbalance of the bacteria that are found in the vagina. The more sexual partners a woman has, the more likely she is to contract it. Some websites list BV as an STI when others do not. All that I can tell you is men obviously do not have BV, but various sexual activities can upset the normal balance of these bacteria in the vagina. BV is associated with premature labor, a lower birth weight, and can lead to infection.
Again, men cannot be tested for this... which heightens the risks in my opinion. Women are not "given" BV, but sexual activities can contribute to the imbalance... if that makes sense smile

Also worth mentioning... some studies indicate pregnant women contract STDs more easily than women who are not pregnant. Other studies say this is not true... but I wouldn't be willing to take that chance.
Whether you are swinging alone, your wife is swinging alone, or you are swinging together... there are risks you are taking and now it's not just your bodies that are at risk, but also the fetus.... which is why I personally would not do it. Nor would I attend a swinging party where a pregnant woman was present.
In my own personal opinion, being hot and horny and looking for a nite of fun doesn't justify the risks that could harm an unborn child.

3 Aug 2010

I think its a bad idea. Everytime one goes swinging theres always an element of risk attached. Now you must remember that its not just u and ur wife involved anymore, theres a third person.....ur unborn child. I wudn't be putting him/her at any unecessary risk

3 Aug 2010

We're in the same situation, but there is no way we'd even consider swinging while Mrs is pregenant. Not saying it's a bad thing, just a personal choice as we do know a few ppl who have met with pregnant couples and also whilst they were pregnant. As i said it's a personal choice and what you choose is entirely your choice, but as the posters above have said, take great caution. MrH.

4 Aug 2010

I personaly wudnt swing while pregnant the risks are to high to the child,and i think everyone needs a break when swinging so why not use the time to enjoy each other an prepare for baby ....ye,l be back to swinging befour ye no it xxxxx congrats on the pregnancyxx

4 Aug 2010

Another thing to consider is swinging isn't actually going to do anything for your wife's hormones. yes, she might be extra horny due to the pregnancy... but getting her sexual "fix" isn't really going to make those hormones subside. They are still going to be brewing in the morning and it's hardly practical to go swinging 24/7 haha. The raging hormones during pregnancy aren't going to subside no matter how often you have sex. They are constantly going to be elevated.

10 Aug 2010

Swinging is a personal choice at any time, and yes there are risks but at the end of the day unless your wife wants to be pounded out of it as hard as possiable i dont see how swinging while pregnant would be any more risky than having sex with just you. Your wife knows her body and what is safe for her and i am very sure she will not put the baby at risk for a fuck. Do what you both feel is right and congrats on the baby :thrilled: