ahem love .. the mod in question last nite was foreced/convinced to stay in the room with ye lol .... but I do understand where your coming from but also understand why the rule is there .. hun you keep chat going in the room so i suggest you open your own room late at night .. they would all follow you lol.. and that way someone has the power to moderate the room if a problem occurs .. like it did last night with one guy abusing a cammer .. I cant mention names but a lot in the room complained about him so im sure you will remember
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so annoying!!
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tanx 4 the reply a special ty to the mod who stayed wit us,,,, she nos who she is!!after been bullied in2 it,, i do find it sooo irritating..happen twice on sunday morning.
as for the guy abusing ppl,,,unfortunatly ive had a first hand exprince of him i asked him why he was reacting like this his well thought out answer was....he has a master in politics!!!..i say he should step it up a notch..and become a politican.....ppl expect them 2 take the piss outta us!!!!!
but i am yet again appealing to admin,,,,plzzz change this rule.
lovebird
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Im guessing that the reason for this rule is to prevent a situation where you could have 30 seperate rooms if the room owner has left,as long as someone stays in the room it remains when the last person leaves the room does it automatically shut itself or at least im sure thats the case.
One solution is for all of those that you have the laugh with to open a room called whatever and use this room a s the room where you meet up and wrong with this and its workable too.
Hugs and Kisses,
Westside.
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tanx 4 the reply a special ty to the mod who stayed wit us,,,, she nos who she is!!after been bullied in2 it,, i do find it sooo irritating..happen twice on sunday morning.
as for the guy abusing ppl,,,unfortunatly ive had a first hand exprince of him i asked him why he was reacting like this his well thought out answer was....he has a master in politics!!!..i say he should step it up a notch..and become a politican.....ppl expect them 2 take the piss outta us!!!!!
but i am yet again appealing to admin,,,,plzzz change this rule.
lovebird
xx
Im guessing that the reason for this rule is to prevent a situation where you could have 30 seperate rooms if the room owner has left,as long as someone stays in the room it remains when the last person leaves the room does it automatically shut itself or at least im sure thats the case.
One solution is for all of those that you have the laugh with to open a room called whatever and use this room a s the room where you meet up and wrong with this and its workable too.
Hugs and Kisses,
Westside.
this is no longer the case west,,where if there are ppl in the room it stays the host leaves,regardless of how many ppl are in the room it has 2 be is the reason im gettn sooo pissed be 20/30 ppl in the room and we would all be having great fun....but once the host leaves room closes.
im gona have 2 get over it,,,,,or get a life...one of the other!!
tanx for the reply west
lovebrd
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If it were up to me i would have a few static rooms like the beach bar,the pool,the directing room etc 4 or 5 main rooms where the rules are plain for all to see such as a main directing ppl want to open their own room after that then password them as long as they are not illegal rooms or have anything against the rules of the would make ppl lives far easier including mods.
Just a thought that jumped out,
Westside.
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west,,,,why isnt it up 2 u????
a good idea is a good idea,,,,well so me granny sed..
Because im not admin LOL Final decisions rest with admin.I would have something like the following,
The Beach Bar,
The Pool,
Directing Room,
The Jacuzi,
No Cam Room,
Or something along those give s abit of leeway to those who want to direct as it does to those that dont want else is passworded and the mods still have control of opening and closing a only waht i would do and it may ,maynot make a difference although i reckon it would make a difference for the often had a dozen rooms open with about 8 of them containing about 5 makes no sense at all to me anyway (by the way alot of things make no sense to me like everyday life) but you can see my drift would make the place more sociable,easier to manage as far as rules someone wants to open their directing room themselves fine but password it and absolutly no directing in the room except the one for a theory.
Like myself,
Westside.
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who are adim?? are they on the site?? as in do the get involved in chat in the rooms?? its all very mysterious. im feeling like keanu reeves in the matrix.......
Admin owns the does be in chat at times ,mainly the beach bar and posts here on the forums at times is quite helpful with any probs or suggestions that you might have though you could ask the mods too.
Didnt mods follow "Bad Manners" and drive scooters?
Westside.
I like the fact that there are lots of different rooms open to everybody. It means you can chat to people who you mightn't ordinarily get a chance to talk to amongst all the chat in the beach bar etc. and also the title of the rooms can give a topic for discussion besides just saying hi in a bigger room....
By having fewer 'open' rooms and having to password new rooms you would reduce the opportunities for new people to get to know each other since if you open a room, who are you going to give the password to? People you already know of course!
From what I gather, the reason the rooms are being closed when the host leaves, is that the creator of the room has the option of kicking people who misbehave and when that user leaves, then the only other person who can do that is a mod, which means more work for them.
Fair enough, it is a lot of work for the mods but I think people should be given some credit and not have to be 'minded' all the time. If there's a problem can't someone just go to another room and ask a mod to warn the person involved or close the room if required?
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I like the fact that there are lots of different rooms open to everybody. It means you can chat to people who you mightn't ordinarily get a chance to talk to amongst all the chat in the beach bar etc. and also the title of the rooms can give a topic for discussion besides just saying hi in a bigger room....
By having fewer 'open' rooms and having to password new rooms you would reduce the opportunities for new people to get to know each other since if you open a room, who are you going to give the password to? People you already know of course!
From what I gather, the reason the rooms are being closed when the host leaves, is that the creator of the room has the option of kicking people who misbehave and when that user leaves, then the only other person who can do that is a mod, which means more work for them.
Fair enough, it is a lot of work for the mods but I think people should be given some credit and not have to be 'minded' all the time. If there's a problem can't someone just go to another room and ask a mod to warn the person involved or close the room if required?
Do you see the way that the forum is layed out?Something like that added to the beach bar etc. So you could have a Newbies room, Gay room,Bi room rooms i named out were only for demonstrative could be called what im saying is to have all of the main groupings fixed rooms and if ppl want to have a room called "Sex at Westsville" etc then password not saying this would be better,i think it may be site could be easier for all to use (could be) if we had about 7 or so main rooms instead of 15 smaller ones with about 5 ppl in to navigate and easier to an opinion ,no hard facts.
Westside
Sex God
I think the fixed room Idea is a good one, and maybe add the option of 2 extra member originated rooms that would be on a first come first get basis. it would make for better dialogue between people instead of loads of 'solitary jim' rooms with one guy waiting in it all night for someone to wander into his or hers 'Big Sexy mammas eating lemon meringue' room or likewise.
Maybe by limiting the amount of rooms there will be a more even spread of mods in them.
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I think the fixed room Idea is a good one, and maybe add the option of 2 extra member originated rooms that would be on a first come first get basis. it would make for better dialogue between people instead of loads of 'solitary jim' rooms with one guy waiting in it all night for someone to wander into his or hers 'Big Sexy mammas eating lemon meringue' room or likewise.
Maybe by limiting the amount of rooms there will be a more even spread of mods in them.
Well its not so much the spread of mods as the spread of ppl in the right directing in the beach bar is a bigger pain in the arse than myself as far as modding goes and there shouldnt be any need for is a huge prob in the we had a fixed room for directing all those who want to be directed or who want to direct can go in there (in theory)and let the ppl that dont want it alone.
Maybe admin would have a good reason for not doing this ,technologically or otherwise.
I think things like the following all on the one chat is goofy,
west directing allowed
make directing allowed
room with a view
mr and mrs x directing allowed
cork room,
ballyduff tonight
marys room
harrys room
would be easier to have say and its only an eg
Gay
Bicurious
Couples
Beach bar
The pool
Directing room etc etc and go and password the this is only my opinion for whats its worth but again,like with most things,we have an erie silence on any topic of debate here.
Might as well stick to lube,
Westside.
Sex God
Isnt that just labeling???. putting everyone in their nice neat groups ??
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Isnt that just labeling???. putting everyone in their nice neat groups ??
Its just an not saying that the rooms should be called these names nor am i saying that ppl shouldnt be allowed to move from one to i am saying is that,just in my own opinion,the site would be easier for all concerned if we had a few fixed main the who has modded will tell you that this can be a paon in the arse.I had conflcits of ppl that were directing or wanted to be directed and all with the almighty banner of "its a swing site".I know its a swing site but a lot of ppl dont want to be is nothing wrong with either but surely its a simple solution to have directing room as a fixed main room a numnut would risk being kicked or banned by directing in the beach bar when there is another main room for it.
Whats better 6 or so main rooms or 15 small ones and two main ones?
At least you give an opinion,
Westside.
Sex God
West, sorry ,I understand, was the names I was thinking would label people,from your reply I can see that you mean they could be called anything.
Maybe the thing is, keep the fixed rooms as the are, the beach bar and the jacuzzi, but limit the number of extra rooms that can be made in a day or evening. Say oh 7 or what ever, but still leave the names to the chatters to decide, and have them on a first come first serve basis, for instance if you came online and the 7 rooms were already made you would just have to wait till the hosts of one room leave and it closes to make another.
But I agree with DeepBlue in that I do think there is a need for the smaller when prolific chatters are on the main screen,(and im guilty of that myself,my spelling is terrible but i can type quite fast :-o) it is very hard for new people to get a word in because the type is going so fast, so the smaller rooms with less people are better for them to ease into chat in and get used to the theres my thoughts such as they are 
Slightly X
Slightly X Quote by user=slightlysexy
West, sorry ,I understand, was the names I was thinking would label people,from your reply I can see that you mean they could be called anything.
Maybe the thing is, keep the fixed rooms as the are, the beach bar and the jacuzzi, but limit the number of extra rooms that can be made in a day or evening. Say oh 7 or what ever, but still leave the names to the chatters to decide, and have them on a first come first serve basis, for instance if you came online and the 7 rooms were already made you would just have to wait till the hosts of one room leave and it closes to make another.
But I agree with DeepBlue in that I do think there is a need for the smaller when prolific chatters are on the main screen,(and im guilty of that myself,my spelling is terrible but i can type quite fast :-o) it is very hard for new people to get a word in because the type is going so fast, so the smaller rooms with less people are better for them to ease into chat in and get used to the theres my thoughts such as they are
Slightly X
Thats a good idea Slightly about limiting the no of smal Slightly its amazing what mother nature does when she strains.A great idea.
I also think that there is a need for smaller rooms but my thinking would be along the lines of say a meet and have their meet and greet in one they had a meet and greet but have it in 8 different locations?I know this is a bit far fetched but again just an eg.
If we had a few more main rooms and had main rooms that allowed for directing (lets face it not everybody wants to be direct and not everybody directs,i reckon its 50 /50)i reckon the chat could be way could be and again there could be reasons ,real reasons why admin may / maynot think along the same lines.
I also have trouble spelling because i type fast and feel like an idiot when i have to go back and edit the spelling of a two sure how much of my sepllign msitakse are because of fast typong or me but being a glass is half full guy i'll assume its the for the exc sorry i mean contribution.
Soylyl ipmorvnig,
Wstdsie
Admin
One thing about human nature is that we like to explore, thats one of the reasons that I don't think any restriction on people opening new rooms should be put in place, also its something that people like to do, hence the number of them that gets opened.
As pointed out, unhosted rooms do need to be closed as the person opening the room has a responsibility to ensure that they are run in accordance with the rules of the site, when they leave it could turn into a free for all and thats when rules get broken.
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One thing about human nature is that we like to explore, thats one of the reasons that I don't think any restriction on people opening new rooms should be put in place, also its something that people like to do, hence the number of them that gets opened.
As pointed out, unhosted rooms do need to be closed as the person opening the room has a responsibility to ensure that they are run in accordance with the rules of the site, when they leave it could turn into a free for all and thats when rules get broken.
Thats fair still mightnt be a bad idea to have a main directing room even on a trial it worked out it could save alot of grief.
Westside.
Sex God
Mind you makemyday ,
I do like the idea of a "Big Sexy mammas eating lemon meringue' room :thrilled:
I do love meringue 
Slightly :love:
Slightly :love: 