Have you been lucky in your life to meet your true sexual match, a sexual soul-mate, be it guy, girl or couple?
Now by sexual match I don't mean your last great shag, I mean someone who both sexualy and mentaly blew your mind, and you did likewise..
Sometimes the hardest thing is to find someone that you are sexually compatiable with.
Sex isn't just about the act itself, it is talking, thinking, being able to allow each other to share fantasies , perhaps not always acting on them, but sharing without inhibition what is in your mind, because despite what a lot of people believe, your mind is the most powerful sexual tool a woman or man posesses.
And to be able to share that with another is mind-blowing.
the mind is a powerful tool....and when two people are reading off the same page that is truly amazing....both of their fantasies will be discussed and either made reality or not but the discussion itself can be such a turn on.....
when you find your true match(sexually....spiritually...physically...etc).....it blows the mind totally...and with care and imagination that is something that will last....
(these are extracts from a very old post, but I liked the idea 7 thought it was a subject deserved another outing)
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Sexual Soulmate
Sexual Soulmate..
Found with someone who makes you feel like you are 'coming home to a real fire' and you make them feel the same...
Who accepts you in and out of the bedroom and knows you feel the same, someone who after wonderful sex doesn't engage in kiss and tell, and never ever compares you to the one before or the one after..
I think the search for a soulmate is like the search for the holy grail.
I also bevieve that what we seek in a soulmate may change as we grow older & that we may possibly have a soulmate for different aspects of our life.
However a soulmate that encompasses all parts of our life including sex is rare & very special.
Life can be funny, when your not looking or least expect it you find your soulmate.
When you do it is time to set that fire, open a bottle of wine or 3, then enjoy &embrace the time you have together.
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Have you been lucky in your life to meet your true sexual match, a sexual soul-mate, be it guy, girl or couple?
Now by sexual match I don't mean your last great shag, I mean someone who both sexualy and mentaly blew your mind, and you did likewise..
Sometimes the hardest thing is to find someone that you are sexually compatiable with.
Sex isn't just about the act itself, it is talking, thinking, being able to allow each other to share fantasies , perhaps not always acting on them, but sharing without inhibition what is in your mind, because despite what a lot of people believe, your mind is the most powerful sexual tool a woman or man posesses.
And to be able to share that with another is mind-blowing.
the mind is a powerful tool....and when two people are reading off the same page that is truly amazing....both of their fantasies will be discussed and either made reality or not but the discussion itself can be such a turn on.....
when you find your true match(sexually....spiritually...physically...etc).....it blows the mind totally...and with care and imagination that is something that will last....
(these are extracts from a very old post, but I liked the idea 7 thought it was a subject deserved another outing)
Alan,
Sounds like your on about relationship sex there,
I have met one or two that 'clicked' on all sexual levels with me, but they were few and far between, I think when it comes to swinging, we detach ourselves a bit more from the emotional side, yes we experience emotions, But when your in the middle of a 'mass orgy' closeness and tenderness are last things on your mind.
I completely agree with Titan there - it is sounding more like a relationship. 
Sex is never black or white, there are always grey zones (which make it so interesting, I have to say)
I found someone like that - an amazing lover and a wonderful friend. Unfortunately, one can't have everything in life and because things were getting very dangerously close, we had to part ways. We still keep in touch and I relish every single second I spent with him - either having sex or otherwise :rose:
Sex is never black or white, there are always grey zones (which make it so interesting, I have to say)
I found someone like that - an amazing lover and a wonderful friend. Unfortunately, one can't have everything in life and because things were getting very dangerously close, we had to part ways. We still keep in touch and I relish every single second I spent with him - either having sex or otherwise :rose: I agree with Titan & Latina outside of Swing it would be a relationship, but I feel most of us are mature & old enough to understand you cant cross certain lines.
However mail, text & technology make it easier to stay in touch & the occassional time together make it all worth while.
However mail, text & technology make it easier to stay in touch & the occassional time together make it all worth while.
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I completely agree with Titan there - it is sounding more like a relationship.
I found someone like that - an amazing lover and a wonderful friend. Unfortunately, one can't have everything in life and because things were getting very dangerously close, we had to part ways. We still keep in touch and I relish every single second I spent with him - either having sex or otherwise :rose:
Maturity emotionaly is the key word here, knowing that you can have a friendship that goes beyond the norm even in Swing, but outside of that due to peoples circumstances you do as Alan-Ball rightly says draw a line...
Yes problems do and can occur, and Latina is correct nothing is black or white, but a true sexual friendship with someone that can last, can only be obtained with respect...
Respect for the other persons situation, respect for your own, being honest and open, and above all else knowing that when the green eyed monster raises its ugly head you do not ever work in the background to create problems for your friend..
Agree 100% with Titan.
On a personal level i met my soul mate in every way when i met teddy and we are in a very committed relationship now, we know each other inside and out and connect mentally and physically. You could say we where destined to be together.
With in swing it is not a situation where you should look for your soul mate as surely you are on a swing site to have sexual fun and not find a partner.
Amazing what you can find when you are not looking ... & of course you are right a Swingsite is not the place to look for a relationship ... but who knows I have heard some love stories have begun on S4I..:violin:.. but it is the exception to the rule ... A swing site is for NSA fun & occassionally you will make a few friends with similioar interests along the way. 
Virgo what do you mean we are not invited...well for all those who are wondering if it's possible to find love on S4I the answer is YES
Not traditional I know, but then again how many relatioships are? Neither of us came on here looking for a relationship, or love, it just kinda happened.
I met my future husband at a meet and greet off this site last April, we got on great, started to meet up after, and the rest as they say is history.
We are getting married in August, and have never been happier :inlove::rose::doggy::bounce:
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well for all those who are wondering if it's possible to find love on S4I the answer is YES
Not traditional I know, but then again how many relatioships are? Neither of us came on here looking for a relationship, or love, it just kinda happened.
I met my future husband at a meet and greet off this site last April, we got on great, started to meet up after, and the rest as they say is history.
We are getting married in August, and have never been happier :inlove::rose::doggy::bounce:
Shaven you owe me a dress!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
am so delighted to hear this news, but not in the least bit surprised:love:Is it okay to ask the nice man from Translink
:giggle::giggle: gary is my sexual soul mate,,he is my everything soul mate,,,,has been since the day i met him 21 years ago,,,and i love him more today than the day i met him ,,,he make me smile ,,,laugh,,,not one day of my life have we not told each other we love eachother,,,,,
on here i am not looking for a soul mate in any shape or form wheather it be even sexual,,,,,on here we looking for a good time and yes chemistry is very important when deciding to play with someone but ,,soul mate ,,,hell no
,,,,!!!!! we on here to swing and from the chand:doggy:eleers (oops how to spell lol) if the mood take me as it often does
,,,,!!!!! we on here to swing and from the chand:doggy:eleers (oops how to spell lol) if the mood take me as it often does Quote by user=lucylovesit
gary is my sexual soul mate,,he is my everything soul mate,,,,has been since the day i met him 21 years ago,,,and i love him more today than the day i met him ,,,he make me smile ,,,laugh,,,not one day of my life have we not told each other we love eachother,,,,,
Lucy that is so sweet :taz:
we on here to swing and from the chand:doggy:eleers (oops how to spell lol) if the mood take me as it often does
did I mention my new chandlier :doggy: :bounce:
